"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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no car and i never gave up...

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Hah, what up all. Real quick, I had a car for some time and then it broke down and got towed. Life seemed miserable atfirst. I just wasn't as efficient overall. Regardless, my game has improved a tremendous amount... I never had girls chase me when i had a car, but they do now.

Now, after about 1.5-2 years, i finally got another car. I also got a cell phone (what we call necessities of life). Things should get better... But I NEVER GAVE UP! and i've come a long ways because of it. Suprisingly I got more ***** when I didn't have a car...

To all of those I don't haves, I lack this, or i have these negative qualities... The only thing that can stop your from getting the girls you want is yourself. Don't dwell on anything in life, do something about it and make things work your way. You don't need a fvcking car. it helps through.

PS I live in LA
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have you seen the 405? everyone drives a car in LA. A 30 mins car ride can take you 3-4 hours on the bus.
 

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The advantage of the bus is seeing girls that are just as poor as you are. Plus, the people who have to take the bus may have more character than those who are spoilt and have their own car 24/7.

I'd rather take the bus if it means more number closes (and it does!).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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