"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no about not fitting in, but not wanting to?

tracy Jaks

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People suck, i hate people, being a donn juan, i think i could possibly be friends woth eveybody,at my school, get on fine with them, be the alpha male, they like to go to the pub, in fact thats all they do, i mean i dont mind it occasionally, but all the ****iing time.

I sometimes think, get a life you diks, but then i wondered if its me, that should get a life, maybe it is maybe it isnt,but then i realise i dont want to spend all my money on beer, trying to get a shag,i mean to some people, it appears most people do, its a great life.

I just cant be arsed with anything, no motivation, dont like people, want to do something productive, with friends, but dont have any, well friends i actually like, and to be honmest at times i dont really care.

I just want know if im supposed to pretend 2 get on with people, or go my own way, probably all alone, for the next 2 years, i dotn want to be thought of as a reject, butr i dont want to follow the crowd.

What does one do?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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same here...... i feel you man, when these kids want to hang out, they do absolutely NOTHING! they just hang out and i sometimes feel like its just a waste of time and money, but hey guess what, THATS WHAT PEOPLE DO.
Im also one that HATES following the crowd, but hey having friends comes in handy sometimes.....
 

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club rats, mall rats, pub rats
 

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It's simple, find new friends. There's so many people out there, I'm sure there's at least a person in your school that has the same mentality as you. Complaining won't get you anywhere, you need to go out there and do what you can.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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good man, dont flow into a mold. but uhh what theyre doing is better than sitting at home alone on your comp bro. So unless you are doing a lot of other stuff, i would suggest getting some new activities.


btw that "alpha male" **** is BS. Do you really want to lead a pack of morons that cant think for themselves?

Seems a bit odd if you do. People that can think for themselves are much better company.

Atleast thats what i think.
 

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Originally posted by tracy Jaks
People suck, i hate people, being a donn juan, i think i could possibly be friends woth eveybody,at my school, get on fine with them, be the alpha male, they like to go to the pub, in fact thats all they do, i mean i dont mind it occasionally, but all the ****iing time.
A bit hard to read, but i think i get it.
I'll ask you a question, Jaks. Did you hate people less and did you get along with them better then now, when you are a "DJ"?
 

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Re: Re: no about not fitting in, but not wanting to?

Originally posted by Titus
A bit hard to read, but i think i get it.
I'll ask you a question, Jaks. Did you hate people less and did you get along with them better then now, when you are a "DJ"?
Well,i guess so,but i never really wanted to be there, i just went with the flow i suppose,i always wondered if there was more to life than just hanging round, then ii started windsurfing, and im playing soccer more now, its abit difficult though with the weather in england, so now im stuck for stuff to do inn the evenings.
 

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Re: Re: Re: no about not fitting in, but not wanting to?

Originally posted by tracy Jaks Well,i guess so,but i never really wanted to be there, i just went with the flow i suppose,i always wondered if there was more to life than just hanging round, then ii started windsurfing, and im playing soccer more now, its abit difficult though with the weather in england, so now im stuck for stuff to do inn the evenings.
Yes, there is more to life then that. But as far as "DJism" touches it, reread the first part of the first sentance to see where it fits in that process.
 
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