"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NLP To Elict Values+Girl Fall For You?

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I'm currently reading a book by Anthony Robbins called Unlimited Power. Unexpectedly their is a chapter in the book called Elict Someone's Stratgey. It shows you how to elict someones love strategy and basically find out how they fall in love. It starts off with you asking the person "Can you remember a time when you felt totally loved?". You ask that person to remember the time and then ask them to experience that feeling again. To elict their strategy you then ask them "As you remember that time and feel those deep feelings of love, is it absolutely neccessary that a person show you love by buying you things, taking you places, or looking at you a certain way?" (This would be someone who would fall under the visual categorey)

The same question is then asked two more times.

To feel love is it absolutely neccessary for the person to tell you he loves you in a certain way?

To feel love is it neccessary for the person to touch you in a certain way?

Now then you can go deeper in the questions like how would they touch you, or where would they take you, or how would they say it? Essentially you can use this on whatever the person (Visual, Audio or Kinesthetic) falls under the categorey and make them fall for you - or use it to enhance an already existing relationship because you know what the person likes.

P.S. This is derived from Anthony's form of NLP

Any thoughts comments would be appreciated, what do you think of using this on a girl?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm just wondering if any of you guys would use it or do you think its sleezy?
 
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That is too contrived!!!!!! Faking it!!!

Simply put, people want to be genuinely loved without conditions!! Thus we have the greatest love of all which emanates from "Mother"!!!
 
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TR is married.. I doubt he's DJ'ing.. where's the credibility here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thomas94305 said:
TR is married.. I doubt he's DJ'ing.. where's the credibility here?
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This fact might be relevant had Unlimited Power not been written in 1986.
 
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