"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NLP To Elict Values+Girl Fall For You?

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I'm currently reading a book by Anthony Robbins called Unlimited Power. Unexpectedly their is a chapter in the book called Elict Someone's Stratgey. It shows you how to elict someones love strategy and basically find out how they fall in love. It starts off with you asking the person "Can you remember a time when you felt totally loved?". You ask that person to remember the time and then ask them to experience that feeling again. To elict their strategy you then ask them "As you remember that time and feel those deep feelings of love, is it absolutely neccessary that a person show you love by buying you things, taking you places, or looking at you a certain way?" (This would be someone who would fall under the visual categorey)

The same question is then asked two more times.

To feel love is it absolutely neccessary for the person to tell you he loves you in a certain way?

To feel love is it neccessary for the person to touch you in a certain way?

Now then you can go deeper in the questions like how would they touch you, or where would they take you, or how would they say it? Essentially you can use this on whatever the person (Visual, Audio or Kinesthetic) falls under the categorey and make them fall for you - or use it to enhance an already existing relationship because you know what the person likes.

P.S. This is derived from Anthony's form of NLP

Any thoughts comments would be appreciated, what do you think of using this on a girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Search the forum for NLP.
 

matygee

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I'm just wondering if any of you guys would use it or do you think its sleezy?
 
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That is too contrived!!!!!! Faking it!!!

Simply put, people want to be genuinely loved without conditions!! Thus we have the greatest love of all which emanates from "Mother"!!!
 

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TR is married.. I doubt he's DJ'ing.. where's the credibility here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thomas94305 said:
TR is married.. I doubt he's DJ'ing.. where's the credibility here?
This fact might be relevant had Unlimited Power not been written in 1986.
 
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