"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NLP test routine?

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dr0pxx

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hey hey hey

Any of you know a good NLP test routine for email or live? I am trying to figure out if the girl is visual, audo, or kinesthic via email, i ahve to have an explanation why I am asking questions, and so it has to kind of be a game with and end.

I know there are some NLP games out there, anyone sueggest some?

thanks for the help

dr0p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Bussey

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Google NLP. You'll find lots. They all tend to work... but choose something that fits you, that would come natural to you.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of curiosity, why are you attempting this via email? It's much easier face to face.
 
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