"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NLP test routine?

dr0pxx

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hey hey hey

Any of you know a good NLP test routine for email or live? I am trying to figure out if the girl is visual, audo, or kinesthic via email, i ahve to have an explanation why I am asking questions, and so it has to kind of be a game with and end.

I know there are some NLP games out there, anyone sueggest some?

thanks for the help

dr0p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bussey

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Google NLP. You'll find lots. They all tend to work... but choose something that fits you, that would come natural to you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of curiosity, why are you attempting this via email? It's much easier face to face.
 
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