"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NJ Master Mind Group

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Fellow NJ Djs, et al,

The deeper you dive into the whole concept of self improvement in dating and any other areas of life, the more relevant it will become to you that a support, reference group, of like minded individuals is key to success.

A quick search revealed that no such group existed, publicly at least on these forums for our state Jersey.

Lets make one!

A group that could help you with advice and support from different point of views but with the same outlook/vision as yours. Imagine the benefit of having real people you can meet up and talk about the concepts learned here and elsewhere. Folks far ahead and behind you that can mentor you, or be mentored by you. People who meet not just to "hang out" but with a meaning and purpose that you suggest/approve. I can't count all the benefits of being in such group if one existed. A win-win situation all around.

PM me if interested.

--I'll always be interested to be part of such group, regardless of my marital status. :p So if you know of one PM me too.

--Excuse the excitement, just finished reading B. Franklin's Autobiography where this concept is stressed vigorously.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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