"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NJ Master Mind Group

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Fellow NJ Djs, et al,

The deeper you dive into the whole concept of self improvement in dating and any other areas of life, the more relevant it will become to you that a support, reference group, of like minded individuals is key to success.

A quick search revealed that no such group existed, publicly at least on these forums for our state Jersey.

Lets make one!

A group that could help you with advice and support from different point of views but with the same outlook/vision as yours. Imagine the benefit of having real people you can meet up and talk about the concepts learned here and elsewhere. Folks far ahead and behind you that can mentor you, or be mentored by you. People who meet not just to "hang out" but with a meaning and purpose that you suggest/approve. I can't count all the benefits of being in such group if one existed. A win-win situation all around.

PM me if interested.

--I'll always be interested to be part of such group, regardless of my marital status. :p So if you know of one PM me too.

--Excuse the excitement, just finished reading B. Franklin's Autobiography where this concept is stressed vigorously.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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