"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vikman

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I need to get some thoughts on this. This probably has nothing to do with approaching women, but it might. I need everyone's thoughts on this, as men.

What are some things that women say or do in night clubs that you could point out and make fun of? (ie, the way they dress, or dance).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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chinwaggler

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Whatever they do in real life?

You shouldn't need to make fun of them really.. that's just putting them down. If you mean negging.. Although you shouldn't need to neg really either

My gran has that dress
Is that hair real?

Dunno I don't do it much
 

Vikman

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No, it's for a movie I'm writing. It's a satire of popular sexual culture and I need to make fun of things girls do at night clubs.
 

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that ****ty hands over their heads thing they do when they drink too much
 
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