night out, need some feedback

[Raikojo17]

so me and this girl went out to the movies tonight for our first date. now before u say the movies is a lame first date, sure, it can be, but only if u dont kno what ur doing. but anyways she picked me up for the date (lol couldnt use the car), and we went to see Norbit.

Great movie, very funny, we had a blast. there was alot of kino goin on as well. we play fought alot, she felt my biceps and my butt, and she sat there and played with my fingers the whole time, keeping my hand on her upper thigh.

i could tell that she wanted me so bad, but i didnt go for the makeout session. idk why, the time jus didnt seem right because we weren't looking each other in the eye and it would feel awkward if i just went over and kissed her.

after the movie we sat in her car and chilled for a second. when i left, we hugged and i kissed her on the cheek.
fun night, but now i feel like a pansy ass because i didnt go for the kiss. would that cause her interest level to drop if i dont go for the makeout on the first date?
need some feedback guys, and or girls.

 

[DJDamage]

so me and this girl went out to the movies tonight for our first date. now before u say the movies is a lame first date, sure, it can be, but only if u dont kno what ur doing.

I though you knew what you were doing.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Next time take me along kid!!

So this hor feels your ass and lets you touch her thigh and then you, on your departure, give her a gentle peck on her cheek!!! HUH/

The women are the aggressors and the men are the passive ones - The End is near, prepare, The End is near!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Raikojo17]

I though you knew what you were doing.

i meant only if u dont know how to make it fun. u can still interact with her during the movie, which i did. we had alot of fun, instead of just sitting there watching the movie.

 

[Bigfatasspimp]

Man, u a pvssy ass nigga. u should gave the B1tch a strong pimphand and then beasted her right there in the movies.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Its all good bud...im sure ur fine...

About the movies, its not a BAD idea, just that for first dates there are more benefits of doing something active.

And dont worry bout not kissin her on the lips yet...if anythin you probably got her wonderin why you didnt kiss her yet, which could work for your benefit...just dont wait too much longer.

But dont be afraid (for lack of a better word) to have given her a kiss.

I would have......Chicks like a guy who knows what he wants and isnt afraid to take it....that doesnt include rape tho haha

~WA

 

[Half full]

Man that girl was all over you, i would have tried playing keepy off, like "Don't touch what you can't afford" Shes touching your ass, that can't be a negative signal... I would have rubbed and massaged her back with the one hand, start from the lower back and slowly worked my way up, take like a minute or until she calms down.

When I get to the neck slightly turn her head your way and go in for it, she'll know what your doing, and thus you've landed your test to see if she was all talk.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Man that girl was all over you, i would have tried playing keepy off, like "Don't touch what you can't afford" Shes touching your ass, that can't be a negative signal... I would have rubbed and massaged her back with the one hand, start from the lower back and slowly worked my way up, take like a minute or until she calms down.

When I get to the neck slightly turn her head your way and go in for it, she'll know what your doing, and thus you've landed your test to see if she was all talk.

He is treating a hor as if she is a woman!!!! Failure is always the result!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[DJDamage]

i meant only if u dont know how to make it fun. u can still interact with her during the movie, which i did. we had alot of fun, instead of just sitting there watching the movie.

Fun is one thing but not trying to have a good conversation (C&F) in between is a copout and this often will result in confusion situation like this:

i didnt go for the makeout session. idk why, the time jus didnt seem right because we weren't looking each other in the eye and it would feel awkward if i just went over and kissed her..

That is why you had difficulty to close because you only went out halfassed and you weren't sure or had to confidence to close (eye contact is very important). Remember you are the purpose of the date and the movie is the side attraction and from the looks of things you got those two mixed up and you ended up being the side attraction.