Night Game Guys do you go for ONS or number?

[Kenny Powers]

I ran shiit this weekend, mainly cause i was pissed this hb blew me off and wanted to make up for it, plus i had already had my swag going for her so I figured why waste it (i was lookin good so some chick slapped my ass at one point).

By the end of the night i had 4 numbers (though one was from my neighbor who i ran into on the way home) and had reignited a "relationship" with an old plate i never got to bang. The night was fun and im extremely satisfied with the way I approached and conversed with the girls whose #s i got.

But i get numbers all the time and it rarely goes anywhere. Ill text with them for a little and hit em up on the weekends to see if we can meet up at a bar, but it rarely works out for one reason or another. I know their probably partying with their friends on weekends but im hesitant to ask i girl i talked to for 10 minutes when we were both drunk to get coffee or something. I usually save that for after we meet up at a bar the second time.

So do you think its better to just say f-it and go for the hook-up the night we meet or get a number, build a comfort level through text then try to get the hook-up when we meet up and chill at a bar?

I'm hesitant to waste time trying to hook-up with a girl i just met cause u can never tell if she's actually interested unlike a girl who agrees to meet up (much higher). So to the guys who have had success with night game, what's your strategy?

 

[r0cky]

I always try for the ons first, if that can't happen then go for the number.

 

[evansblue]

When it comes to the bars/clubs on the weekend, you always go for the f-close that night. Reason being there's a very short window of opportunity with party girls. You gotta get 'em in the moment while they're still in party mode. You fast forward a couple days later, they're no longer buzzed up from the alcohol; it's no longer the weekend, and more than likely they're either working, or studying for some exam. Then she gets a call a couple days later and you're just the guy from last weekend. That's not a vibe you want to send.

Be flirty with the girl for a minute or two, get her number and jet off and leave the bar. When I pull my phone out and start entering her number, I'll always say something to the effect of "You're too cute, we have to grab a drink later tonight." This is very subtly indicating to the girl to keep her schedule open at the end of the night.

You hit up a different spot and repeat this process. By the end of the night, you should have a pretty decent inventory of numbers to work with. Then it's just a process of elimination and working text game to figure out which girls will be down for a ONS.

 

[Kenny Powers]

evansblue solid advice, but when do you usually start texting girls to meet up later that night. I actually tried this with that plate, telling her i was going to an after party but i sent the text at 2:30am and she didnt text me till the next morning saying she had fallen asleep and was sorry she missed it (may have be lying but who cares).

My friends and i usually dont go out till 10:30, are there even people at bars before then?