"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Night Game and First Date Field Report

Alex DeLarge

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The other night a few of my friends and I hit the bars after a long day of work. I walked by this really cute girl and made some eye contact and we started to chat. The both of us had a really great short conversation, then we went inside.

We made some more conversation had a connection here and there.. a few mutual friends, then went back to our social groups and eventually I left. I was sort of kicking myself for not number closing, but it was no big deal.. Just another night and there are women everywhere anyways.

Well the next day I got a facebook message from her and she added me. We exchanged a few messages and exchanged numbers. That night I met up with her again and we hooked up. She seemed really into it and loved my company.

A few days later I called her and scheduled a date. We hungout and she seemed very nervous, but we still had a good time together. I'm naturally a funny and witty person, so the whole C+F thing comes naturally to me.. I still felt sort of nervous around her since I had just met her and found her really attractive, but she seemed way more into me. I remained rather mysterious and aloof the whole time, asking her questions about herself and only vaguely answering questions she asks me. Didn't really kino at all, we just talked and I ended the date with a hug and kiss. Since I found this site, most times I meet with girls I wind up making out, feeling up, fingering, getting a BJ etc.. and things haven't lasted too long after. So I figured I would change up my game and hold back on those things to see if the results differ.

After the date, she texted me saying that she'd love to go out again and that she had not felt the feeling she had around me with another guy in a long time. She complimented me saying I'm incredibly handsome and all sorts of stuff. She seemed very genuine and sincere about these statements.

I sort of have my doubts on this girl though.. I've had girls become attracted very instantly like this, but one day they say these things then a week later they're not returning calls or tell me some fvcked up story (I dated a girl who was engaged to a man in prison for murder a few months ago, only to find out after I had sex with her.. :woo: ) and I next them. I feel as though with this girl if I want things to go further than a few dates I should be comforting toward her without being a wuss/pushover.

To my knowledge so far, all of her relationships had been rather steady in the past as well. So she might just be a good genuine girl after all. I'll put time to the test and I'll see how she stands out though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Also, forgot to mention WHY I'm sort of suspicious about this girl.. About 4 months ago she was engaged to a guy who cheated on her. They dated for about 4 years. She's probably still attached yet lonely, this has not only happened to me before with women, but I've seen it happen with my friends.
 

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how far have you gotten with this girl you met at the bar.

dont be fooled never forget where you met her. im not saying to refer to her as a bar slut but always keep that in the back of your head.

treat everygirl as a slut until she proves herself otherwise.
 

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Tiguere said:
how far have you gotten with this girl you met at the bar.

dont be fooled never forget where you met her. im not saying to refer to her as a bar slut but always keep that in the back of your head.

treat everygirl as a slut until she proves herself otherwise.
This is exactly what I'm thinking right now. I barely even know this girl and do not know if she has any sort of reputation for being slutty (even though she doesn't seem it, but who the fvck knows nowadays..).

Like I previously mentioned, I met a girl in a bar a few months ago who seemed generally like a nice sweet girl, she gave me the same "you're really cute" bullsh1t talk only to leave me hangin two weeks later. To this day this girl still randomly texts me saying she misses me. I just tell her pretty much to get a fvcking life and stop contacting me.

You meet a lot of class acts at bars haha.. Slvts, alcoholics, BPDs, users, or a combination of these!
 
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