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Night date idea - she doesn't drink

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Yo fellas,

So have a date with a cute 29 year old tomorrow night. I am planning to meet her around 8 so that I don't have to buy her dinner, because forget that. However, I am struggling to think of an appropriate place to take her out because she doesn't really drink because she got really bad alcohol poisoning when she was younger. She has had a couple drinks with me before but it doesn't seem to be her thing.

She lives in a kind of a hipster/bohemian neighborhood with cafes, music venues, lots of shops, and so on. I am thinking of specifically someplace that I can escalate and get physical and take her back to her place.

Any ideas that pop out at your guys?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BigSmooth

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If I were you I'd start off with a quick stop at a cafe, get a couple drinks to talk and loosen up for the night. Then I'd hit up a music venue (check first to see if there is a show going on) for a couple hours because the vibe will be good and it'll give you opportunities to physically get close to her and there won't be chances of awkward pauses in conversations. Then when you can sense it is the right time, tell her "hey let's get outta here", and bring her back to your place.
 

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Mercenary of Love said:
I am planning to meet her around 8 so that I don't have to buy her dinner, because forget that.
^^^serious, 90% of the time I choose 8pm for that reason.


Mercenary of Love said:
She lives in a kind of a hipster/bohemian neighborhood with cafes, music venues, lots of shops....
^^^This is why I like them coming to my kneck of the woods. Home field advantage. But if you must go to her place, she may want to show you around, which isn't too bad either. Is there anything YOU are interested down there? You want to see? Personally, if you don't know the area that well, you could do some research. Maybe if there's something you want to buy you can tell her about it and have her come along, help you pick something out. Then go from there. If there's a lot going on you can move from venue to venue.
 

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Play pool dude. Lots of reasons for kino.

That said...I rarely drink and still go to bars. She can too. But coffee is also good.
 

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it sounds cheesy but ice skating is honestly one of th ebest dates u can do for a first...kino the entire time especially if she cant skate u will be holding her up...
 

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