"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nick Lachey is a freakin AFC

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ShizamDaMan said:
HE TOOLS AROUND WITH 19 YEAR OLD COLLEGE GIRLS WHILE MARRIED TO JESSICA SIMPSON.
It's a lot different if you've been banging her for 3-4 odd years. To him it's nothing; to any commoner it's basically the world. Only because it's above and beyond anything you've experienced does it make you think it's that great. The same reason people complain about athletes who take their abilities for granted. They've had their abilities all their lives so they get used to it, and it doesn't mean as much to them as someone who had to work hard for anything they achieved or somebody less fortunate. And you make it sound like he can't do any better, which is never true for anyone. While it doesn't seem possible to most people, even somebody like Jessica will get old after a while.


And one of those articles said the girl didn't do it with him because he was married. Therefore that leads me to believe it didn't have as much to do with him as it did with the other girl's beliefs (if the story is true). Hell, look at the girl Kobe had sex with. Her life is basically over. If she had said no for her own good, would you all be saying Kobe can't get any girls?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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