"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nice will.i.am videos that really touch the heart!....

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Uplifting, but unrealistic to put so much hope and expectations on any one man. I'm a fan of Obama myself, but like any politician, it's almost impossible to run on pure ideas once you get into office. Politics is about making compromises with opposing parties and trying to be all things to all people. I think Obama is well-intentioned, but I don't think he'll be able to do all the things he's promised, even if he wants to, because he must still work through a framework already in place that limits him. For example, he may have been opposed to the war, but if elected, don't expect him to pull out the troops right away, and if he does draw things down, and things start to sour, he might have to restrategize and keep them in longer which is going to piss off his voters who voted for "hope" and "change". I think he will change things, but people shouldn't fool themselves into thinking that he is going to bring sweeping change or be radically different from any other politician. If people are building him up to be like the 2nd coming of Christ, then they are ensuring their own disappointment.
 

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I already voted for Obama via absentee ballot in Michigan and am a fan of the guy like speakeasy but the will.i.am songs are a double edged sword.

On one hand they could appeal to swing voters and inspire some 18 year olds who don't think about voting to actually get out there and vote and on the other hand this kind of stuff helps Mccain's campaign paint Obama as a celebrity spouting empty rhetoric whose only concern is with maintaining his popular image and celebrity status.

And yes sensible Democrats all know that Obama is not the Messiah and is not going to be anything other than a status quo business as usual politician but we do believe that he's a better status quo business as usual politician to vote for than to have a third Bush term via Mccain/Palin and go to an unnecessary war with Iran and possibly ignite World War III in the process.
 
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