nice try smile

[Enjoydalife]

So, I was working with this girl today and everything went well for a while but at the end I probably messed up something. I said something which I probably shouldn't which was something like: I hope I could help u with this. She smiled but that smile was rather a "nice try" smile. How to react to these situations and how to correct it later if possible?

 

[Amo]

Accept that emotions are difficult to read.

People think I'm reasonably happy most of the time, when most of the time I feel like punching a wall.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Accept that emotions are difficult to read.

People think I'm reasonably happy most of the time, when most of the time I feel like punching a wall.

I can identify when I fail to express myself, essentially caring too much. Sometimes you just really wanna be genuine so bad, but the consequences? The unknown..?

 

[Jack Wealthy]

I agree with what espi had to say. It was probably her "come **** me" smile. Reframe. Realities a myth, real is subjective.

 

[LearningSlowly]

What you're getting at is an idea that can be summed up as "vibes."

It's true, people give off clues by body language, voice tonality and (I think) even brainwaves. Our subconscious picks up on a lot of these, our conscious mind picks up on a few.

Be careful that you don't let your mind lead you astray. Negative thoughts are a disease and one that must be purged. But still, take advantage of vibes when you get them. If its a bad vibe, take a few breaths and try to be more genuine with her.