"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nice trick to get the number from a girl

vivek59234

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Guys,

I have been posting few threads about me being an AFC all the time. And f****d up badly by a chick.

I have decided to move on and tried hard to come over her, the best way I could find out was to meet more women. And that's what you all DJ's have suggested.

Here is a successful story...

It's a bit long but... I apologize in advance to all of the readers.


I met a girl on facebook today... Meanwhile I was reading DJ Bible... Suddenly I got her profile and read something highlighted which says "black *****". Rather than a typical convo I started with "what's this black *****"? and she goes like.

"Nupur" probably her friend's name...

Me : "Is she your friend?"
Her: "Yeah"
Me : "so she is a black *****"
Her: "yeah"
Me: "I definitely wanna see that black ***** because haven't seen them in my entire life"
Her: "LoL"
Me : "Does she have white hair?" "hope she has some eyes as well"
Her : "ha ha ha" sent me her friend's link
Me : "she seems to be a sweet *****"
Her : "lol, she keeps changing her mind all the time for her friends"
Me : "Than you change her"
Her : "Lol"
Me : "what else do you do apart from watching black *****es all the time"
Her: "I study and also play chess and u?"
Me : "I am in to business and Love chess, but am sure i'll beat u"
Her : "If you can beat international champ than ofcourse you can beat me"
Me : "what if I will beat you"
Her : "anything you want"
Me : "You will take me out for a coffe and dinner."
Her : "sure"
Me : "Lets play on the weekend"
Her : "I am having tests on this weekend but I am free after 25th"
Me : "Yeah than i will let you know later on by the way I maintain a diary in which I keep track of all the people I meet so give me your email id"
She " [email protected]"
Me : "also gimme your number"
She: "hmm its a bit difficult"
Me : "Well that's what I do for all"
She : " I trust you on that and gives her number"
Me : "gotta go now will call you sometime later"
She : "Sure"


Well it worked to get her number... Perfect... Any reviews? And I am learning this... My confidence is up now...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1 Lucky FLIP

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Well, if it got you on a date, then fvck yeah you did something right. Now just don't talk about chess during a date. Actually in your conv. above I probably wouldn't have mentioned you played, however, nothing wrong in teasing her about her playing :)
 

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so u got her number...good for you. dont see the point in tricking them into giving up the number though
 

falconslax89

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if this dudes really from India...i dont think chess is dorky like it is here lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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