"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nice tip i found out

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when u r in class and u have a cute girl next to you, without sayin' anythin', just smilin' at her, lift your legs up and put them on her thighs, like she's a table and u r relaxin. i did this with two different girls (both with a boyfriend) and they both started rubbin' my legs (one even my thighs then asked for a massage:)).
it's really good, if i had some nerve, i'd try with some girl i don't know:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cut the highschool bullshyt will ya !
 
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kind of a weird tip which may have a weakness. I don't think it'll work everytime

or maybe shes an AW (feeding off of it?)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Sexual Harassment Fem-Nazis would like a word with you...

Don't ever, ever, ever do anything sexual or fun at work or school! Ever!
 
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Originally posted by Devestator
The Sexual Harassment Fem-Nazis would like a word with you...

Don't ever, ever, ever do anything sexual or fun at work or school! Ever!
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i hope ur serious:D
 
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Remember, he's from Italy. Italians tend to be a lot more comfortable with physical contact than others. Devestator's right though: don't bother with this in the States unless you really know the girl.
 
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I'm Italian :( Anyway, yeah, trust me.

I lost a job over something like that. It was a crap job, so don't shed any tears for me, but watch your back. When you're watching her back (sorry).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hey devestator, ur right, i haven't made myself clear enough... u should always wait until she shows at least a bit of interest, otherwise it's too dangerous... even in italy:D
 
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I do this all the time with girls I know. No one's ever had a problem with it.

As for chicks I didn't know, I'd probably chat them up a little before attempting.
 
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Oh, you live in Italy. I thought you lived in America, the land of the free, where Feminist Storm Troopers will cut off your d!ck if you so much as look at a girl.

But yeah, still, be careful buddy. Your English is quite good, btw.
 
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This is definitely a tip I´d not dare to use (unless I knew the girl)!!!
 
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