"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nice tip i found out

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when u r in class and u have a cute girl next to you, without sayin' anythin', just smilin' at her, lift your legs up and put them on her thighs, like she's a table and u r relaxin. i did this with two different girls (both with a boyfriend) and they both started rubbin' my legs (one even my thighs then asked for a massage:)).
it's really good, if i had some nerve, i'd try with some girl i don't know:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cut the highschool bullshyt will ya !
 
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kind of a weird tip which may have a weakness. I don't think it'll work everytime

or maybe shes an AW (feeding off of it?)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Sexual Harassment Fem-Nazis would like a word with you...

Don't ever, ever, ever do anything sexual or fun at work or school! Ever!
 
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Originally posted by Devestator
The Sexual Harassment Fem-Nazis would like a word with you...

Don't ever, ever, ever do anything sexual or fun at work or school! Ever!
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i hope ur serious:D
 
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Remember, he's from Italy. Italians tend to be a lot more comfortable with physical contact than others. Devestator's right though: don't bother with this in the States unless you really know the girl.
 
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I'm Italian :( Anyway, yeah, trust me.

I lost a job over something like that. It was a crap job, so don't shed any tears for me, but watch your back. When you're watching her back (sorry).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey devestator, ur right, i haven't made myself clear enough... u should always wait until she shows at least a bit of interest, otherwise it's too dangerous... even in italy:D
 
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I do this all the time with girls I know. No one's ever had a problem with it.

As for chicks I didn't know, I'd probably chat them up a little before attempting.
 
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Oh, you live in Italy. I thought you lived in America, the land of the free, where Feminist Storm Troopers will cut off your d!ck if you so much as look at a girl.

But yeah, still, be careful buddy. Your English is quite good, btw.
 
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This is definitely a tip I´d not dare to use (unless I knew the girl)!!!
 
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