"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nice opener that worked for me first time f-close

themaster07

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Hey,i went clubbing on the weekend.. and got this idea from something robbie williams did at a club,so decided to try it out cause nothing much was happening.. i picked the hottest girl i could see hb 9.5/10,walked up drink in hand leaned into her and whispered in her ear "i wanna tell you a secret...." then gave her a flirty grin and walked off,next thing i was walking through the dance floor with my mates,and i feel a tug on my arm and this chick grabs my arm and pulls me over to an isolated part of the club,her friends were there but soon left us alone,fast forward 45 minutes and i f*cked her in her car,hottest girl ive ever done... thank you robbie haha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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themaster07

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i didn't rape her lol,we went downstairs cause she wanted a smoke, (i dont smoke,i actually find it a bit gross in girls),and i was starting to get nervous so said back in a sec getting a drink and left her alone,it took me like 10 minutes to get served and while i was waiting she comes up behind me and puts her arms around me and goes "whats taking so long?" and i go "ohhh missing me already!!" and put my arms around her sorta hugging,then i just went in for the kiss,we pashed a bit then i bloody get served,talk about crap timing,so i said to her wanna go back up stairs and she said nah lets go,and she asked where my car was (i dont have one) lol,so i said a friend drove me to the club and he's upstairs,and she said "dont worry we'll take mine" so we got in the car and i went in for the kill,started kissing and she unbuttoned my shirt,i started rubbing her up and that got her going so we moved into the back and i took her bra off played with her boobs for a while,then unbuttoned her jeans and moved them down,and started fingering her for a while,she is only 19 so i didn't worry too much about a commy (bad i know),but i stuck it in anyway,she didn't mind then pulled out when i was ready and the rest is history
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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themaster07

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ive been on a high ever since,ive been trying to work out why it worked too lol,i was wearing a really dressy business shirt and jeans,and had my hair done etc,her friends and her looked pretty stuck up,so i wasn't expecting anything but a weird look on her part,i tried to appear really sure of myself,its gonna sound stupid but i tried to act like robbie williams would doing an approach lol,when she came up to me she was rpetty bubbly,there was stacks of eye contact but not so much flirting,i had to start all the convo and i thought it was going bad when we were downstairs that why i went to get another drink,but as soon as i had left it seemed like her interest grew 10%,we had a few things in common,so the convo was pretty easy,i just tried not to get excited and break my state of mind (which was thinking i was gods gift to women) lol
 

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Yeah she was deffinetly drunk and horny.

lol

Glad you had fun though, its always nice to have a confidence booster.
 

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hahaha probably,she is way hotter than ive ever done before,its certainly raised my standards lol.. im going out again this weekend,i'll see i i can do 2 in a row with the same line,i'll give it some field testing
 

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let us know how u get on :up:
 

B4IFURU18?

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StoneColdFox said:
Yeah she was deffinetly drunk and horny.

lol

Glad you had fun though, its always nice to have a confidence booster.

No **** Sherlock...ya think?

She was into him as well. Unless a woman is a total sl00t, she's not going to **** a guy just because...it takes some attraction.

Give this man some credit.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PectoralisMajor

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Yeah - let us know when the babys due.

Mate, just because she's 19 dont mean you shouldnt use a condom, and pulling it out when your ready doesnt stop pregnancy happening sometimes either. I learnt that one when I was 15 in sex education - jeez man.

Still, good work on the girl...sounds like she was up for it before you spoke to her.
 

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LOL, no condom on a girl thats willing to get pegged after a 30 minute convo.. GREAT JOB!! ur the man now... let us know when ur penis turns green and falls off.. :box:

if you had used a condom.. (and remember kids, always always always bring one) i would congradulate you on a job well done.. but since you didnt, ur a moron.. why not just let her suck you off and finish with that?...

kids these days...
 

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i didn't tell her anything,i was at the bar with my friends i spotted her,then walked over leaned into her and whispered "i wanna tell you a secret....."

then smiled and walked off,and it mustve sparked her interest,girls like her never give me the time of day,so i did something right lol
 

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So when she said, "What's the secret?" what did you say??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she wasn't drunk man,and there was no before i walked over attraction,which makes me think the line i used got me in,when she asked what the secret was i said "i wanna make love to you" and then i started laughing and she found it hilarious
 

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Who cares what worked or how. You got your freak on with the girl you chose. Put that under your belt, go forth into the world, and repeat.
 
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