Nice Guys Who Win-Is Being a Nice Guy Underrated Here?

[thedeparted]

I disagree. C+F adds sexual tension. You might get laid anyway. But tension makes it much juicier. Sure you don't neg a 5 like you do a 10, but don't just march her into your bedroom. You have to build some attraction with all of them.

 

[slaog]

Is debate reminds me of parenting. I know it's different but I'll use it as an example. There are 2 types of nice parenting.


Bad parents are nice to their kids and the kids know they can do what they like so the parents have no control. To gain control they'll give the kids treats like chocolate etc and that works... for about 5 min and then the bad behaviour starts again. The parents gets stressed out and lashes out at the kids from time to time which creates more stress between parents and kids.


Bad parents threaten the kids with punishment all the time but the kids know nothing will be done. They know the parents are all words and no action.


Good parents are nice too. The difference is they have rules. They give the kids treats because they were good and if they were not good they get none. The kids know these parents mean what they say so the kids behave themselves. They know these parents are in control and won't lose their cool.


This means it's a happier enviornment because the kids are well behaved and so it's less stress for the adults. Both parents and chrildren have more respect for each other as a result.