Red Pill teaches us that Nice Guys finish last, behind Jerks.
The official Red Pill 1.0 explanation is that Nice Guys are boring, and Jerks are exciting.
But then we have another Red Pill 1.0 concept, the SMV concept, that teaches us that women will mate equal or above their own SMV.
The corollary of the SMV rule is that in order to mate with a woman, a man should increase his perceived SMV, via game, and/or decrease the woman's SMV, via neg attitude.
But this corollary is precisely the difference between Nice Guys and Jerks. This is not about beeing boring or exciting.
The Jerk constantly decreases the woman percieved SMV, by negging her, patronizing her, pulling her of pedestal, dominating her, and trying to find a better women. THIS WILL PISS THE WOMAN OFF, and she will complains a lot to the guys lost in her friendzone, but at the same time she will fight back to regain her lost ego, with the only weapon at her disposal = her vagina/mouth/ass.
On the contrary, Nice Guys will truly fall in love with their women. What do you do when you are in love with a woman ? You will want to make her feel good. You will make her homework, help her in her life, teach her how to dress, how to cook, how to make sweet love. Tell her she is beautiful and you love her.
DOING SO WILL INCREASE HER SMV. But this will not increase yours. In fact it will decrease yours ("he is so nice with me, because he has no one else...")
The key to a successful relationship is not about being a jerk, or being nice, it is about monitoring your relative SMVs.
The SMV concept is so powerful it can be extended to any area in your life, in friendship management, in workplace, team management in sport, usw...
YOU CAN BE NICE... if you are high SMV.
If you are low SMV, you should be the Jerk.
What do you think guys ?
The official Red Pill 1.0 explanation is that Nice Guys are boring, and Jerks are exciting.
But then we have another Red Pill 1.0 concept, the SMV concept, that teaches us that women will mate equal or above their own SMV.
The corollary of the SMV rule is that in order to mate with a woman, a man should increase his perceived SMV, via game, and/or decrease the woman's SMV, via neg attitude.
But this corollary is precisely the difference between Nice Guys and Jerks. This is not about beeing boring or exciting.
The Jerk constantly decreases the woman percieved SMV, by negging her, patronizing her, pulling her of pedestal, dominating her, and trying to find a better women. THIS WILL PISS THE WOMAN OFF, and she will complains a lot to the guys lost in her friendzone, but at the same time she will fight back to regain her lost ego, with the only weapon at her disposal = her vagina/mouth/ass.
On the contrary, Nice Guys will truly fall in love with their women. What do you do when you are in love with a woman ? You will want to make her feel good. You will make her homework, help her in her life, teach her how to dress, how to cook, how to make sweet love. Tell her she is beautiful and you love her.
DOING SO WILL INCREASE HER SMV. But this will not increase yours. In fact it will decrease yours ("he is so nice with me, because he has no one else...")
The key to a successful relationship is not about being a jerk, or being nice, it is about monitoring your relative SMVs.
The SMV concept is so powerful it can be extended to any area in your life, in friendship management, in workplace, team management in sport, usw...
YOU CAN BE NICE... if you are high SMV.
If you are low SMV, you should be the Jerk.
What do you think guys ?