Nice guys dont finish last..but pyssys do

[frivolousz21]

I am 24 now damn im old.


anyways....I have friends 23, 26, 27..and 23.

who are all nice guys...each of them would treat a woman good.

most of them do well first talking to a woman, maybe a few dates.

when they were younger they would actually have GF's...but that wouldnt last when the inner pyssy is revealed.

now they are older....and now its harder and harder for them with women.

they always brag that I am stuck at home with my son and fiance. Well they are stuck at home with there left or right hand....

Let me tell you something..the older I get I realize being respectful and nice is right.

but the thing most men lack is courage..period. courage.

my friends will waller in this world alone until they realize that courage.

Im not sure where im going with this..I am writing it because last night we went out..I finally had a night out after 1 month and they just acted like *****es I was embarassed...Im thinking WTF is this shyt...Im out here and you guys wont even talk to women...? what fun is this..atleast let me play wingman.

anyways...look..time flys..just yesterday I was 18 yrs old...

I have a great family and life at 24..but I pissed away YEARS BY BEING A PYSSY...your time to have fun and develop your social confidence is SHORT..

so stand up and be somebody

 

[OddManOut85]

you say you pissed away years by being a pvssy.what did you do? looking back,do you regret it? your right about the time flying.im 21.and just yesterday,i was 18.what i regret is not taking advantage of oppurtunities and not going out more.yeah.time to have and develop confidence is short.why does it feel like its the end of the world though?

 

[frivolousz21]

you say you pissed away years by being a pvssy.what did you do? looking back,do you regret it? your right about the time flying.im 21.and just yesterday,i was 18.what i regret is not taking advantage of oppurtunities and not going out more.yeah.time to have and develop confidence is short.why does it feel like its the end of the world though?

It doesnt...I am very happy.

but I can see how fast time goes by now that I have a 3 month old baby boy.

I think of his life and how he will get older and when he is 24..ill be 48!

haha.

when I was in HS..I was ok..I had gf's had sex..but I wasted yrs thinking oh it will happen..ill met a good girl..BLAH BLAH BLAH.

IF I could go back..id of slept with the hottest girls I could have.


I can close my eyes and remember being there like it was yesterday..and I graduated in 2000.

when I say develop social confidence....if a person doesnt they will settle for less.

and there isnt much time...I am lucky I landed a good woman...but I see my friends age..they are gettign close to 30..well some of them are. and they are still alone..and no kids.

we dont live forever..our chance to live after 50 starts to fall off.

and im half way there

 

[SamePendo]

they always brag that I am stuck at home with my son and fiance. Well they are stuck at home with there left or right hand....

Let me tell you something..the older I get I realize being respectful and nice is right.


Im not sure where im going with this..I am writing it because last night we went out..I finally had a night out after 1 month

so stand up and be somebody

You mean like, being more like you?

Most guys probably lack courage, yes.

 

[OddManOut85]

thats what i mean,in hs,i didnt have gfs or got laid.i know not everyone does.and its tough realizing that.and i still havent gotten over this hump.i still well,cant seem to be able to meet women.i didnt even necesarily want the hottest girls.i just wanted to meet girls.period.but i didnt.and thats something i cant get back.thats what im worried about,being close to or over 30,and alone with no kids.is this natures cruel way of "seperating the boys from the men"? seriously,it feels like i fell into this disposition.like im a born loser.or is this all in my head?

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

In many of the PUA books and websites I have seen them say AFCs or Nice Guys and in brackets AFC/Nice Guy, which seems strange to me.
There must be some reason why they use the terms AFCs and Nice Guys in the same context, although I can't understand the reasoning behind this.
I have met many dudes who are Nice Guys and AlphaMales at the same time, so this seems like a strange statement from what I have seen.
If a Nice Guy has an strong powerful confident X Factor personality he can get the HB8-10s, he doesn't have to be nasty and bad to pull in the girls.

 

[frivolousz21]

In many of the PUA books and websites I have seen them say AFCs or Nice Guys and in brackets AFC/Nice Guy, which seems strange to me.
There must be some reason why they use the terms AFCs and Nice Guys in the same context, although I can't understand the reasoning behind this.
I have met many dudes who are Nice Guys and AlphaMales at the same time, so this seems like a strange statement from what I have seen.
If a Nice Guy has an strong powerful confident X Factor personality he can get the HB8-10s, he doesn't have to be nasty and bad to pull in the girls.

percisely..the older you get..the more you will see that the "bad boy" is ussually a loser.

and the alpha males are the guys with Stones and kindness.

 

[frivolousz21]

thats what i mean,in hs,i didnt have gfs or got laid.i know not everyone does.and its tough realizing that.and i still havent gotten over this hump.i still well,cant seem to be able to meet women.i didnt even necesarily want the hottest girls.i just wanted to meet girls.period.but i didnt.and thats something i cant get back.thats what im worried about,being close to or over 30,and alone with no kids.is this natures cruel way of "seperating the boys from the men"? seriously,it feels like i fell into this disposition.like im a born loser.or is this all in my head?

its all in your head.

ASK THE SHEZZ.

THERE IS ONLY 1 WAY TO GET BETTER AT SOMETHING.

AND DONT ASK ALLEN IVERSON!




PRACTICE

 

[OddManOut85]

thats just it.i havent gone out and practiced,ive had all this time,and ive done nothing,and thats what i am shocked about.i just cant believe.not just women,but life in general.like ive been wasting away and all these missed oppurtunities.i just cant believe it.no wonder ive ended up feeling so alone and isolated.not being in school hasnt helped either.it feels like im behind in several ways.like socially in a way.it seems like everyone else gets it,but i dont in some ways.