"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Nice Girls" I need advice.

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Hey guys, I need advice.

First girl: She is from work( i know, I know) We went out to see a movie and then after had something to eat. The get together was very light and friendly. she laughed a lot at my jokes which i thought were not very funny, but she was in tears. Overall, if I considered it a date it would have been a 9. Our sense of gross humor is the same and seems like our values.

Then we went out for sushi, again the same deal we had a lot of laughs and just fun.

Yesterday we went for sushi again witht he same result. But this time I am starting to consider kind of "dating" her. I added light KINO by touching her arm and leg when I would say something funny.

So, This girl is considered a "nice girl" She has the old fashioned values. She was telling me that all her BF have been friends first and it took at least a month to sex her. (all her BF were in the marines, if you dont know these guys are the ultimate alpha males and plow through girls like I have never seen)

Do you think she is thinking those were "dates" or how should I play it.?

when I was talking to her about dating and sex and the city, she stated that she recently went on a date with a guy and he did not call for a week that made her confused about his intentions. So i am guessing this is refering to me because that is exactly what I did when we went out the first time to the movies and had a good time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Marines are not alpha males....Insucure little boys that want to play with guns.

Normally takes a month to bed her. Do you see yourself as normal?

Organise the next date a little more intermate to find out what shes thinking....Try dinner at yours or something? Something less public more private. You will soon know what she thinks by this.

Get in there mate!
 
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Try to have sex with her and see what she says
 
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Marines are not alpha males....Insucure little boys that want to play with guns.

Normally takes a month to bed her. Do you see yourself as normal?


Well, when I went out with my friends cousins(marines) they had no care about approaching or talking to any girl. also, that night everyone went home and F***ed. It was crazy how one girl would reject them and they would go to another and their KINO escalation was crazy, it went from touching the back to make outs.

When she said that I said, Sucks for them or something like that. (maybe stupid reply)
 
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I know a tractor driver whos pulling tactis is to go up to a girl and say "Do you do anal?". He gets rejected by about 30 girls before one goes home with him. Doesnt mean hes a DJ. Hes just playing the pure numbers game. Anyone can ask every girl to sleep with them.

A DJ will choose the girl he wants and suduce her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Marines get plenty, its usually cuz they're pretty cool guys to begin with. Second, they don't give a **** if they get rejected.

Have a couple friends in the military and i know for sure they get a lot more than i do. :D

I hate the word alpha male. It's so overused on these forums and it usually accompanied by people giving other technique advice.
Its not technique that gets you laid,
its having the balls to talk to a girl, have fun and not care what she thinks about you.
 
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