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Nice GIRLS Finish Last

Juice09

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So most men realize that women don't fvck nice guys, and most men realize that they go for masculine, "bad boys". What most men DON'T realize is that women have a similar conception, that men go for *****es and don't like nice girls.

Books like 'The Rules' and 'Why Men Love B1tches' started the phenomenon of women behaving like b1tches to get men's attention. They perpetuate the idea that, by acting uninterested, acting tough, and generally playing hard to get, you're going to attract men. Sound familiar?

There is an element of truth in all these stupid books. Yes, men enjoy a chase, and yes, we like a challenge. But there's a difference between teasing/flirting and playing hard to get, and acting b1tchy/rude and playing impossible to get. Which is what a lot of these women do.

It's similar to how guys act like *******s, unattractive *******s, after reading about c&f. They go too far and overdo it, in the end, the girl just assumes you're not interested. And a d1ck.

They also sell the same idea that so called "pick up artists" send men, that your looks don't matter. It makes no difference how fat or ugly you are as long as you play by "The Rules". Which we all know is a lie. That's why there's so many fat b1tches. Looks matter a lot, in fact, physical appearance is one of the most important aspects of attraction.

Men have to educate themselves in this garbage. We have to realize that in America, most women think that playing hard to get is the way to attract men. It's common among women to give relationship advice like "don't act too interested" and "wait a few days to call him back".

Have you ever had a girl who just didn't seem interested in you. She'd rarely return your call, and she always acted like she had better things to do than hang with you. In the end, you said "fvck it", and gave up on her because it clearly wasn't going anywhere. You moved on to other, funner women. Then one day, out of the blue, she calls YOU up and asks why you haven't been contacting her? Yeah, she liked you all along, she was just playing those silly games to "attract" you.

"The game" is a lie. Most of the game consists of faking confidence and playing silly games. Both on the female and male side. So take a lesson from all those b1tches you've met. Instead of trying your hardest to be a d1ck, be playful and flirty. Make ****y and funny comments when it is cute and playful, not when it is an insult directed at the woman.
 

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So because *****y women are unattractive to men, you think we should mimic the actions of a cuter/nicer girl, the type you say most of us find attractive?

I don't think it works that way. Your assuming male attraction and female attraction are both the same.

Instead of trying your hardest to be a d1ck
Most people here don't try to act like ****s anyways. They just end up seeming like that because they're doing C+F wrong.
 

Juice09

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kraytkiller said:
So because *****y women are unattractive to men, you think we should mimic the actions of a cuter/nicer girl, the type you say most of us find attractive?

I don't think it works that way. Your assuming male attraction and female attraction are both the same.
No, in fact, that's the opposite of what I said. Women are attracted to masculine men and men are attracted to feminine women. The point is that there's a female equivalent of Don Juans that we should be aware of.
 

Mr CIDH

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Juice09 said:
"The game" is a lie. Most of the game consists of faking confidence and playing silly games. Both on the female and male side. So take a lesson from all those b1tches you've met. Instead of trying your hardest to be a d1ck, be playful and flirty. Make ****y and funny comments when it is cute and playful, not when it is an insult directed at the woman.
Beeing a true DJ is not about these d1ck things. Beeing a jerk gets you more women than beeing a 'nice guy', but beeing a true DJ, instead of a jerk is the top level you can reach.

DJ game with a lotta ****y + funny works and you don't have to be an ass or jerk at all to get women. Just don't act like a desperate or wussy guy, tease the hell outta them and confuse them. Its fun. They will call you "ass", "smartass" or "jerk" nonetheless when you play Mr. Innocent when they try to seduce you, pretend to miss all their interest signals and tease them and let them work for you till they are all crazy. The longer the wait the wetter the panties.. women working to get you is good. Both for you AND them.

Women who play games? Too manipulative = big turn down. The far opposite of that, BORING A-SEXUAL women are a turn down too.
Women who jump on you right away without any talk or effort are usually NUTCAKES. In between all that are the good ones.

Women may play hard to get in the beginning but if she still does it when she digs you she simply is not interested enough. When a woman asks why you don't call it may mean she just wants to know why she isn't sexy enough, it does not have to mean she wants YOU. Women wanna be found sexy by as many men as possible, especially if they are attractive they HATE it when you aint impressed enough. Thats called ego games. Skip that sh1t.
 

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Juice,

The primary flaw with your argument lies in the fact that most women who are biotches are hot. They are only biotches because their hotness makes their personality irrelevant. Men will still hit on them no matter what they do or say simply because of how they look. Hot girls really do not have the option of being "nice girls" because they will get harassed too much by men they don't want, so they have to be biotches in order to exist in this world.

in short: biotch=hot, nice=unhot

So yeah, nice girls finish last. But, not for the reasons you stated. When asking why some biotches are the way they are, the answer is the same answer as most things relating to humans: because they can.
 
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Eh, hot girls aren't b1tches to guys they are attracted to and want to be with. If she likes you she is going to pull the "Fck Off" down from her forehead and be cool. In almost every instance I can remember, whenever a girl who was b1tchy to guys, it was a guy she wasn't really into.

Bottom line is this.. If she is a hott chick with a bad attitude and you are a true Alpha male and she realizes this and is very attracted to you (usually right after meeting you), she will subconsciously submit to you and once she does this, if you play it right, you are in control. The key is to never give that control up once you gain it. Acting AFC or non confident once you have her is a sure fire way to lose the control.
 

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Not all attractive women are *****es, but there is some truth to the idea that if you are not a ***** then many men will take that as an "open" to come on to you, even if you do not express any interest. Or you will be accused of leading people on.

So that is definately part of it.

Great post from a newbie. I like it. :up:

It's good to see someone who is willing to put the shoe on the other foot.
 

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Duffdog said:
The primary flaw with your argument lies in the fact that most women who are biotches are hot. They are only biotches because their hotness makes their personality irrelevant. Men will still hit on them no matter what they do or say simply because of how they look. Hot girls really do not have the option of being "nice girls" because they will get harassed too much by men they don't want, so they have to be biotches in order to exist in this world.

in short: biotch=hot, nice=unhot

So yeah, nice girls finish last. But, not for the reasons you stated. When asking why some biotches are the way they are, the answer is the same answer as most things relating to humans: because they can.

:up: That's why its important to spin plates and be a suave kinda guy because if those hot b1tches sees that you don't take their sh1t and that you can replace them without blinking then they will be forced to change their ways and become nice to you or else its NEXT!! for them.
 
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