"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nice dress shoes

shagnscoob

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i just got a job working at express, the clothes store, and we have to dress nice everyday. unfortunately because of the way i dress, i would wear slipon vans for dress shoes to everything, but my manager says no sneaker type things.
so i have to buy real dress shoes...

im open to suggestions here
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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stalluproar

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A have a black shiny and brown pair of Bass shoes. They are decent and not so expensive. Go out and shop and see what you like. Also make sure your belt and your shoes match.
 

MindOverMatter

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Honestly man, if you can't buy a pair of shoes on your own, there is no hope for you.
 

GlutusMaximus86

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You could try Nunn Bush. They're pretty comfortable dress shoes, unlike some other dress shoes I have worn in the past.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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