"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nice car owners: a question...

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my cousin drives an audi and still lives at home, most of his salary goes to maintaining his car.
i drive a decent toyota but i also own my own condo.

who do you think pullls more?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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S1NN3R

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There has got to be some middle ground with cars. Try to sling some hot-totty from Tiffany's in a '99 Chevy S-10, and you're likely to have a hard time. Look to pick up a more down to earth girl in a Murcie, and she's probably going to roll her eyes at you.

The condition of your car means more than anything. Keep it minty fresh inside, wash it twice a month, keep a good shine on the paint and leather, and it won't matter as much that it's a '95 Jetta.

I do know of one car that gets everybody though. The rich-b!tches get wet over it, the hippie girls even like it, hell, kids in middle school comment on it at stoplights. It's nice and elegant enough to impress the snobby, but not so flashy that it turns off the rest. There's nobody that doesn't like this car. :D
 
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I have a bright red 350Z with aftermarket HID's. The car gets a LOT, and i mean a LOT of attention. I get a LOT of looks and strangers (of all ages and genders) compliment me on it all the time. That being said, i have no idea how useful it is for picking up chicks, as i just got out of a long relationship. I'll report back very soon :)
 

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man, you can tell we're at different ends of the age ladder.

a 19 yr old getting a car like that as a pvssy strategy. think about that. take your monthy payment, insurance, gas and divide by the number of chicks you nail in a month. that's your pvssy cost.

i'd say get a decent enough car for transport, if you need it, get the education, sock away as much $$$ as you can and learn to invest, learn how to run a business or get a career.

financial freedom is worth more than pvssy -- you can get that by other means, but financial freedom you generally can't

still, at 19 you can't knock getting as much as you can. all the same, if you had to handicap it, how much of it is the car getting it for you and how much of it is you? it can't be 100 to 0.

chicks come and go, i'd try to keep the money.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dude WTF teach me, I want a Lexus at 19

too bad NYU will cost $40,000 a year
 

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PRiSM92289 said:
dude WTF teach me, I want a Lexus at 19

too bad NYU will cost $40,000 a year
Yeah, ouch... that's why I'm not going to NYU.
 

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TesuqueRed said:
i'd say get a decent enough car for transport,
I can't speak for anyone else here, but I buy my cars (like the M5 pictured) for me. I like going fast, I like carving corners, I like the shocked looks on Mustang Cobra owner's faces when a family sedan is passing them. I like my RX-7 because it peels my face off around the corners. It's just a cool side-effect that some chicks really like them. To me, cars are not transportation, but neither are they to impress girls.
 

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ah - to each his own! LOL. i used to drive wild when i was a courier and your day's take depended on knocking off tags (and one gets so bored after awhile). dunno what happened --age, maybe, or I saw one too many bodies stretched out on the highway. now i drive nice - or nice enough.

i don't mind a nice ride, i do mind the cost.

one rule i won't budge on: stick shift. there's just no real excuse for an automatic, imho, not like it's a real car or something...
 
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