"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice car owners: a question...

nonchalant

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my cousin drives an audi and still lives at home, most of his salary goes to maintaining his car.
i drive a decent toyota but i also own my own condo.

who do you think pullls more?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There has got to be some middle ground with cars. Try to sling some hot-totty from Tiffany's in a '99 Chevy S-10, and you're likely to have a hard time. Look to pick up a more down to earth girl in a Murcie, and she's probably going to roll her eyes at you.

The condition of your car means more than anything. Keep it minty fresh inside, wash it twice a month, keep a good shine on the paint and leather, and it won't matter as much that it's a '95 Jetta.

I do know of one car that gets everybody though. The rich-b!tches get wet over it, the hippie girls even like it, hell, kids in middle school comment on it at stoplights. It's nice and elegant enough to impress the snobby, but not so flashy that it turns off the rest. There's nobody that doesn't like this car. :D
 
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I have a bright red 350Z with aftermarket HID's. The car gets a LOT, and i mean a LOT of attention. I get a LOT of looks and strangers (of all ages and genders) compliment me on it all the time. That being said, i have no idea how useful it is for picking up chicks, as i just got out of a long relationship. I'll report back very soon :)
 

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man, you can tell we're at different ends of the age ladder.

a 19 yr old getting a car like that as a pvssy strategy. think about that. take your monthy payment, insurance, gas and divide by the number of chicks you nail in a month. that's your pvssy cost.

i'd say get a decent enough car for transport, if you need it, get the education, sock away as much $$$ as you can and learn to invest, learn how to run a business or get a career.

financial freedom is worth more than pvssy -- you can get that by other means, but financial freedom you generally can't

still, at 19 you can't knock getting as much as you can. all the same, if you had to handicap it, how much of it is the car getting it for you and how much of it is you? it can't be 100 to 0.

chicks come and go, i'd try to keep the money.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dude WTF teach me, I want a Lexus at 19

too bad NYU will cost $40,000 a year
 

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PRiSM92289 said:
dude WTF teach me, I want a Lexus at 19

too bad NYU will cost $40,000 a year
Yeah, ouch... that's why I'm not going to NYU.
 

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TesuqueRed said:
i'd say get a decent enough car for transport,
I can't speak for anyone else here, but I buy my cars (like the M5 pictured) for me. I like going fast, I like carving corners, I like the shocked looks on Mustang Cobra owner's faces when a family sedan is passing them. I like my RX-7 because it peels my face off around the corners. It's just a cool side-effect that some chicks really like them. To me, cars are not transportation, but neither are they to impress girls.
 

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ah - to each his own! LOL. i used to drive wild when i was a courier and your day's take depended on knocking off tags (and one gets so bored after awhile). dunno what happened --age, maybe, or I saw one too many bodies stretched out on the highway. now i drive nice - or nice enough.

i don't mind a nice ride, i do mind the cost.

one rule i won't budge on: stick shift. there's just no real excuse for an automatic, imho, not like it's a real car or something...
 
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