Nice an other girl forced me to leave and then gets an other guy

[Who Dares Win]

No anger nor butthurt, it happened many times already and Im afraid it will happen again given such circumstances.

So I take this girl to this big bar after her friend told me that she liked me, we have some drinks but the same moment we sit at the sofa my bvllsh1t detector starts to move on the yellow zone as much as my gut is annoyed.

I already prepare myself to the following part but I keep trying, no enthusiasm from her, closed bodylanguage and face turned toward the opposite direction of me, so I try for benchmark number one and try to grab her hand and start some safe kino in a safe zone...she retried her hand.

Ok message clear, I tend to move to "pragmatic mode" when I feel that it aint working, I ask her "whats going on" in a tone that means "ok its not working guess you cant disagree".

So despite we were supposed to stay togheter I tell her that Im ok with whatever she wanna do as long as she doesnt waste my time then leave.

Then I grab an other girl and start to flirt with her, actually a girl I already know which allows me to run some kino on her even on upper body.

This other girl see us and pass near us, I reach her briefly to get my confirmation which I get so I wish her to enjoy the night and leave.
She asks me who was that other girl which I ignore since it was pointless to play the jealousy game with an uninterested girl.

Quite funny how she was completely open when she met this other guy (which was no way better than me and trust me I recognize honestly when a guy is better than me in look), I see them kissing on the sofa and she tried to get my attention twice to show that "she got an other guy", I politely speak with her smile and leave in few seconds.

She even sent me a sms later on asking how was I to which I replied that I drunk more than I should which was true since I started drinking with the second girl.

Anyway I just left the place and thats it.

Im not really complaining except that I didnt have sex (not with her but sex in general) but at least the good point is that I can gauge interest and predict the future 100% accurately also due to experiences like this one.

Update: just saw she sent me an other text asking "if Im ok"....sorry b1tch you can give me blue balls but you aint getting any ego boost out of me...guess the no reply policy will work considering that its 7am..

 

[Who Dares Win]

Not even a reply, does such sad things happen to me only?

Anyway found other texts from her later on, but all clear attempt to fish for attention and boost her ego.

 

[Hydrak]

Lol, girls like that are pathetic. She is insecure and have to compensate when you show you have high value. She reminds me of the stereotypical daddys girls who sleeps around just to make their dad mad.
Delete her number, theres no point responding to stupid questions like that.

 

[SirFratserlot]

Ive had countless times where their friends are like she really likes you blah blah blah, and she play games. Just take it like a grain of salt.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Dont get me wrong guys I just had a "date" with her cause her friend made it sound it was an easy same night lay.

Im not mad at her since attraction is not something that comes out of obligation, I just would have wanted for her to make it clear from the beginning that there was no sex involved that night even before I did what I did to get a confirmation.

Its like those girls which go to "have a drink" in my friend house then they tell him that they dont want any intimacy, he is right being pissed off since its obvious to anyone that when a guy give attention to a girl is for a single and only reason.

Its perfectly fine not being attracted from someone, its not fine to lose ones time only to have his attention.

 

[Uncharted]

Dont get me wrong guys I just had a "date" with her cause her friend made it sound it was an easy same night lay.

I've done this before too so I know where you're coming from. I'd say it's still 50/50. Half the time you can hook up, the other half she starts playing crazy games and you have to next/NC her forever.

 

[nismo-4]

If your gut tells you that your princess is in another castle, she usually is. If she's giving off mixed emotions, there's another guy in the picture.

Delete her ass. Unless you want to be in the friendzone, which I doubt knowing you. And don't reward her disrespect with your attention. That's my ruling.

Case closed. It's amazing what bitter experience does to men in the dating game.