Its being a while guys, hasn't it? Seems like my boot camp thing a while back was a bit of a flop... 
Ah well, I decided to resume my series of ' Journey ' posts, this one was written about two weeks ago. I've also decided to make a blog which will contain all the posts I made in relation to it! The blog host however, is under maintenance at the moment so I'll have to wait until torromow to fix things up and post the link.
Anyways, with further adue, onto the post....
Part 4: You got to go through the learning process
I recently read in the DJ Bible or somewhere else on the site ( I’ve forgotten, I need to double check ) that one should NEVER give up, even if the only thing you want to do is throwing in the towel! There has a being a few times where that’s how exactly I felt, like a failure who’d never make it in the ultra competitive dating scene.
But quote my favorite band ‘ Yeah Man, before success can manifest, You got to go thru the learning process. Come learn. ‘ In short, I’m going through a learning process, everyone has to ‘ before success can manifest ‘ , even those Casanova’s you know had to discover their abilities as well!
I’m still learning, the good thing is I’m still young, so I still have plenty of time to make mistakes and learn from them. It’s all a part of the game of life we’re in, there are those who make things happen, those who watch things happen and those who ask ‘ What happened? ‘
Obviously, because of the fact I’m here, I want to change my status from spectator to player or rather that of a Don Juan. Its not an easy process, let me tell you, I have messed a lot since undertaking the DJ journey more seriously late last year. There was AFCish moments, plenty of them, missed opportunities, like yikes, how did I let those happen!!?? There is also my failed attempt at running / doing a Boot Camp and more so in-between. But the thing is I AM LEARNING!
I’m learning from many sources, sosuave, other places on the internet and people I know in real life. All of their lessons combined have made me a stronger and better person! I’m not where I am at yet but I am getting there.
Last Night ( Saturday ) was a busier one the usual, this was partly due to mock exams ( I did those last year, thank god I never have to do them again! ) being finished, which resulted in a lot of people my age being out in the town that night! Coupled with some new - found knowledge from a friend of mine an everything here, it was a great night for me!
Now, I didn’t get any numbers ( To be honest, that wasn‘t what I was out for. ) but the I was able to hold short conversations with a few girls and say Hi to so many, I lost count! Another was that even though I saw others around me scoring I didn’t care at all! ( Well, it did start to get a bit annoying towards the end but I was able to shake it off ) I also learned that a case of mistaken identity can work in my favor at times as well! I also got a few compliments on my appearance as I have actually ensured I was more clean and fresh that night than what I usually would. Another I showed was that I WASN’T DESPERATE, turning down a dance from a girl which I wanted no business with!
So, what did I get out of it? Well, I got an extended comfort zone, a better sense of worth ( This will do wonders to my self - confidence! )
Ah well, I decided to resume my series of ' Journey ' posts, this one was written about two weeks ago. I've also decided to make a blog which will contain all the posts I made in relation to it! The blog host however, is under maintenance at the moment so I'll have to wait until torromow to fix things up and post the link.Anyways, with further adue, onto the post....
Part 4: You got to go through the learning process
I recently read in the DJ Bible or somewhere else on the site ( I’ve forgotten, I need to double check ) that one should NEVER give up, even if the only thing you want to do is throwing in the towel! There has a being a few times where that’s how exactly I felt, like a failure who’d never make it in the ultra competitive dating scene.
But quote my favorite band ‘ Yeah Man, before success can manifest, You got to go thru the learning process. Come learn. ‘ In short, I’m going through a learning process, everyone has to ‘ before success can manifest ‘ , even those Casanova’s you know had to discover their abilities as well!
I’m still learning, the good thing is I’m still young, so I still have plenty of time to make mistakes and learn from them. It’s all a part of the game of life we’re in, there are those who make things happen, those who watch things happen and those who ask ‘ What happened? ‘
Obviously, because of the fact I’m here, I want to change my status from spectator to player or rather that of a Don Juan. Its not an easy process, let me tell you, I have messed a lot since undertaking the DJ journey more seriously late last year. There was AFCish moments, plenty of them, missed opportunities, like yikes, how did I let those happen!!?? There is also my failed attempt at running / doing a Boot Camp and more so in-between. But the thing is I AM LEARNING!
I’m learning from many sources, sosuave, other places on the internet and people I know in real life. All of their lessons combined have made me a stronger and better person! I’m not where I am at yet but I am getting there.
Last Night ( Saturday ) was a busier one the usual, this was partly due to mock exams ( I did those last year, thank god I never have to do them again! ) being finished, which resulted in a lot of people my age being out in the town that night! Coupled with some new - found knowledge from a friend of mine an everything here, it was a great night for me!
Now, I didn’t get any numbers ( To be honest, that wasn‘t what I was out for. ) but the I was able to hold short conversations with a few girls and say Hi to so many, I lost count! Another was that even though I saw others around me scoring I didn’t care at all! ( Well, it did start to get a bit annoying towards the end but I was able to shake it off ) I also learned that a case of mistaken identity can work in my favor at times as well! I also got a few compliments on my appearance as I have actually ensured I was more clean and fresh that night than what I usually would. Another I showed was that I WASN’T DESPERATE, turning down a dance from a girl which I wanted no business with!
So, what did I get out of it? Well, I got an extended comfort zone, a better sense of worth ( This will do wonders to my self - confidence! )