Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What towns are you near ?Originally posted by Superman X
Southeastern Mass here...that's kind of far away, but I'll let you know if I ever come up that way.
If you want to make a road trip up to Nashua, I can certainly accomodate the company. Drop me a PM.Originally posted by legolas
I'm in the Boston area but don't party in town as much. Ifanybody wants to get together and share knowledge or techniques then I'm all for it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
M.A.C, thanks a lot for the offer and I actually may take you up on it but a trip to NH certainly is kinda out of the question right now. I'm way too busy with work. Will see soon.Originally posted by Matt ala Casanova
If you want to make a road trip up to Nashua, I can certainly accomodate the company. Drop me a PM.
M.A.C.
I recently moved to Cambridge, but been waaaay too busy with work and school to go out much lately. I'd be down to check out the local bars/clubs though.Originally posted by legolas
I'm in the Boston area but don't party in town as much. Ifanybody wants to get together and share knowledge or techniques then I'm all for it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.