Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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NFL Patriots & Culture of Cheating

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I read that article. Pretty eye opening when you see the extent of the cheating the Patriots did. It looks to me at least that they had a bigger advantage because of it than the league wanted you to believe.

Still, according to the article, they saw a weakness in the league's willingness to enforce the rules, and they exploited it. They did what they could get away with. Yeah, they got caught, and yeah they paid a few penalties, but they still have the four Super Bowl wins.
 

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zekko said:
I read that article. Pretty eye opening when you see the extent of the cheating the Patriots did. It looks to me at least that they had a bigger advantage because of it than the league wanted you to believe.

Still, according to the article, they saw a weakness in the league's willingness to enforce the rules, and they exploited it. They did what they could get away with. Yeah, they got caught, and yeah they paid a few penalties, but they still have the four Super Bowl wins.
So what are you saying?
 

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Fatal Jay said:
So what are you saying?
That it was an interesting article?
 

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oh, thought you was justifying the fact that they cheat
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fatal Jay said:
oh, thought you was justifying the fact that they cheat
No, but I'm saying they're getting away with it. Oh, the owner and the coach have been fined, and they've lost some draft picks. But they're still piling up the Super Bowls.

I'm sure you've heard about Pittsburgh complaining about radio interference in last night's game, and that they say it happens all the time at Gillette Stadium.

I didn't watch the game, as I'm not a fan of either team, but I saw a few minutes of it. When I was watching, the Steelers had 3rd and goal but were called for a false start. Roethlisberger immediately started complaining to the refs that the Patriots had yelled out a fake simulated snap count that caused the lineman to jump. The announcers said the refs didn't hear it. But at this point things are looking pretty dirty in New England.

However, I wonder how many SoSuavers would consider it alpha to cheat to win if you could get away with it? I bet quite a few.
 

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Best coaches/players/programs are always on the edge of innovation. At all levels. In the pros, your schemes aren't really going to change TOO much since all the talent is similar, so you are looking into other ways. From what I've seen, they really have not come out and CHEATED in the true sense of the definition. They've exploited loopholes.

My personal opinion is that most of their critics are haters.
 

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http://pit.247sports.com/Bolt/Steelers-discuss-headset-issues-further-expose-Patriots-ways-39331277

Where there's smoke there's fire, and there's been plenty of smoke in New England during the Bill Belichick era.

First, there was Spygate, then Deflategate, which took placed earlier this year. On Thursday, a new controversy was born in the very first game of the 2015 season.

Instead of communicating with their coaches, Pittsburgh's coaches received the broadcast stream of the Patriots' radio announcers for nearly the entire first half of their game against host New England. Mike Tomlin was irate after the game and the Steelers included this note on what happened on the sidelines related to the headset malfunction following the game.

"This is the kind of stuff that happens to the visiting team in Gillette Stadium all the time. From the start of the game through the opening 14 minutes of the first quarter, the Steelers’ coaches’ headsets were receiving the Patriots Radio Network broadcast of the game. The broadcast was so loud that the Steelers coaches were unable to communicate, and the NFL rule is that if one team’s headsets are not working the other team is supposed to be forced to take their headsets off. It’s what the NFL calls the Equity Rule. Strangely enough, whenever an NFL representative proceeded to the New England sideline to shut down their headsets, the Steelers headsets cleared. Then as the representative walked away from the New England sideline, the Steelers’ headsets again started to receive the Patriots game broadcast."
 

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It's funny how people hate on the teams that are winning. If you look deep enough many teams do many things that are seen as questionable but people like to focus on the team that's winning.
 

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I don't see the Blackhawks being accused of cheating during their 3 recent championships by their "haters."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There's no question the Patriots have cheated. Certainly they cheated with Spygate. I don't see how anyone who follows football would not acknowledge that.

They weren't exploiting a loophole, they were exploiting a weakness in the league in catching and punishing offenders. There's a difference. Regardless, it's paid off for them. But their reputation has suffered.

The league has supposedly cleared them on the radio business, and Pittsburgh has said they won't file a complaint. But I think the league is protecting them, to an extent. If you read the article in the OP's post, it talks about how the league destroyed some of the evidence against them. They didn't want the credibility of their champions compromised.
 

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samspade said:
I found that article to be 10,000 words of mostly hot air. Spygate was years ago and the Patriots have already been punished. It was signal-stealing (with video taping).
If by hot air you mean a comprehensive account of what happened, then yeah.

I agree that there may be ways to explain away Deflategate and this latest thing with the radios. MAY be. But there is no question they cheated with Spygate. And yes, they were punished, but they still got three Super Bowls out of it. So I doubt that they regret any of what they did, considering that it led to ultimate success.
 

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I view Tom Brady as a cheater, just because of the evidence behind him. I see a trend when qbs get caught up in scandals seem like things get brushed under the rug.
 
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