I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LOL:crackup: Those guys weigh what...maybe 150 pounds? HAHAHAHAHA thats funny. Not only that but are they even in shape? I want to see one of those 150 pounders do that to an offensive lineman or lineback like AL Wilson, he will get woke the fuke up in a hurry.
Better yet how about we give Jerome Bettis the ball and see one of em tackle him, funny stuff man, really.Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lol...Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You're a fool.Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
LOL:crackup: Those guys weigh what...maybe 150 pounds? HAHAHAHAHA thats funny. Not only that but are they even in shape? I want to see one of those 150 pounders do that to an offensive lineman or lineback like AL Wilson, he will get woke the fuke up in a hurry.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
OMG that's the bad version the original had "breathe" by prodigy playing in the back ground and I'm telling you that song GOES SO WELL WITH IT. Try playing it.Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
I remember a thread not to long ago that talked about Rugby being a harder hitting sport or somethin? I was doing some web surfing today and came across this....enjoy boys
http://www.bofunk.com/video/2451/tackles_compilation.html