"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rainman4707

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Don't you think we "eliminate" women to easily?

Just watched a film & a lady said to the guy she had just started seeing "my mother says i have a nose for the wrong guys"

As soon as I heard that, I thought so suave would call that a red flag.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova

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Just watched a film & a lady said to the guy she had just started seeing "my mother says i have a nose for the wrong guys"

As soon as I heard that, I thought so suave would call that a red flag.
Those "wrong guys" display the correct traits that attract women. I don't consider that a red flag. The only time it's a red flag is if she's keeping him as an orbiter.
 

El Payaso

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Translation: I have gotten pumped and dumped several times. Please, feel sympathy for my statement and transform into a pathetic captain save a hoe.
 
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