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nexting girl, no kiss on 1st date

GS750

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pyros said:
well, what I meant was, if you would next a girl WHO REJECTED YOUR KISS on a first date.

Anyway, from my experience, I always go for a kiss on the first date, always.
In the last year just two girls have rejected my kiss on a first date and I have nexted both of them, and they haven't contacted me after that. See this, eventhough we had a nice time they were either not attracted to me or not emotionally available, so the kiss test is a powerful tool to separate the wheat from the chaff.

Why would you want to waste your time, energy etc, with a woman that is not that into you but you have to have a second date to confirm it?

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i dont know why that hand emoticon appeared above.
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If the date went well overall and she rejected the kiss on the first date then yes I would likely next her. I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. I usually don't go for the kiss on the first date. But if that's your method of screening then you should stick with what works for you.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To offer a counterpoint:

2 days ago, I went out on an awesome date with a HB7, made out. She went ghost ever since. I think its pretty absurd you're basing a woman's interest level on a 1st date kiss, believe it or not, some women are pretty conservative. (especially in Asia, don't count when you are a white male gaming in a foreign place)
 
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