nexting girl, no kiss on 1st date

[GS750]

well, what I meant was, if you would next a girl WHO REJECTED YOUR KISS on a first date.

Anyway, from my experience, I always go for a kiss on the first date, always.
In the last year just two girls have rejected my kiss on a first date and I have nexted both of them, and they haven't contacted me after that. See this, eventhough we had a nice time they were either not attracted to me or not emotionally available, so the kiss test is a powerful tool to separate the wheat from the chaff.

Why would you want to waste your time, energy etc, with a woman that is not that into you but you have to have a second date to confirm it?

P.S.

i dont know why that hand emoticon appeared above.

If the date went well overall and she rejected the kiss on the first date then yes I would likely next her. I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. I usually don't go for the kiss on the first date. But if that's your method of screening then you should stick with what works for you.

 

[Konada]

To offer a counterpoint:

2 days ago, I went out on an awesome date with a HB7, made out. She went ghost ever since. I think its pretty absurd you're basing a woman's interest level on a 1st date kiss, believe it or not, some women are pretty conservative. (especially in Asia, don't count when you are a white male gaming in a foreign place)