Next?

[nan3109]

Alright, as many of you know I went out to workout with the girl from my dormatory and it was all good. So when we rode the elevator together to our dorms, before she got off I told her to call me tomorrow after she's done with class (8pm) and that we should do something. I called her around 830pm (mistake, i guess) because my friend told me if I want osmething I need to go get it and that it worked for him.

When I called she didn't answer and I left her a voicemail saying to stop by later or gimme a call back whenever. Was this a mistake? Should I just wait now until she calls me ? I was thinking of waiting 2-3 days before calling her again if she doesn't call me back by then.

NEXT? This one is hot by the way, a good catch and we both are big into fitness so.... :-\

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

i suggest waiting it out for awhile and giving her a chance to call you back. She might have been busy or her phone might have been on vibrate whatever..no need to next so fast

 

[nan3109]

Originally posted by Cloudtopsun2100
i suggest waiting it out for awhile and giving her a chance to call you back. She might have been busy or her phone might have been on vibrate whatever..no need to next so fast

yes, but then again, isnt that the DJ WAY of handling things??

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

No need to next.

But, lay off the needy a bit bro.

Give it a couple days, raise your social proof in your dorm by going out and having for with other chics.

Be genuinely busy. Honestly, if her IL in you was high enough, she'd call you back. Just sit back and wait.

DON'T CALL HER BACK AND ASK HER OUT AGAIN

You'll come off as a needy guy with nothing else better to do then to bug her. Yea she's hot, and you dont wanna screw this up...but..don't come off as a guy that's always available.

Flip the script...say a hot girl is calling you, leaving a message at 830...then another one at 900...then another one at 930..then another one at 10...then another one at 1030...

You'd get annoyed REAL quick regardless of how hot she is.

Play it cool...wait for her to call you back..

And when you plan the date...have EVERYTHING SET FOR THE DATE.

The line "give me a call so we can go hang out sometime" is F*CKING tired and played. You're asking her...F*ck asking her...

Demand the date soubtly...example

"hey _(fill in the blank name)___ , the movie the Grudge comes out this Weekend...I know how much you love scary movies..I'm down to go at like 8ish. This Saturday..ME..YOU...I pick you up 8ish...get to the 830 movie..then we can swing by Coldstone for some icecream. And don't worry, I'll be a gentleman and let you pay for the icecream =)"

Its to the point, there's a direct plan, I never asked...I assumed, and I slid a little bit of C/F in there to keep her honest...if you say it with enough enthusiasm..how the heck can she say no??

Just sit back..chill..and DON"T CALL HER BACK. If she doesn't call you back within the next week...NEXT the chic..obvious low IL.