"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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''It’s easy to see why I stop caring about my boyfriend and our petty fights anymore.'' - When your girl stops caring about fights and basically doesn't give a fvck what you do, she has checked out of the relationship.

That story is spot on. When a girlfriend wants a break, she's riding or about to ride other c0cks. I've been in this situation before as I'm sure many others here have and this is how I've handled it.

Her: I need some space, I'm just a bit confused I think we need a break.
Me: Sure. (leave immediately and go nc)

After 2 weeks of nc she calls and I decide to answer to see what she has to say.

Her: I've been thinking and I want us to be together, I miss you.
Me: I quite like this break thing, I think I might stay on it. :)
 

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This is exactly why I don't have a girlfriend these days.

Why only on Friday evening, there was a very fit young blonde Kiwi flirting with all the guys in the pub, in particular with TMK, taking sips on my beers, LOADS of kino from her and giving me the serious come-to-bed eyes. When it came to TMK taking the number: 'I've got a boyfriend.' TMK proceeded to provide a short and succinct lecture regards the fundamentals of exclusivity.

Spin plates men. We have precious few other options at the moment.
 

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Smh. Just smh. Look at how she rationalized her bad behavior. Thanks for the reminder, OP.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Agreed with Mauser.

At the VERY least, when a woman tells you she needs a break, it is because she is content with the possibility of losing you. If any woman whom you are in a relationship ever demonstrates to you that she is fine with losing you, you either dump her immediately and never contact her again or you immediately begin meeting and having sex with other women if you haven't been doing so already.

Your girlfriend: "...I think we should take a break. I need some time to clear my head. You know I love you, but, I've just gotta reevaluate some things."

You: "Okay, cool."

If you don't want anything to do with her any further, stop contacting her. If you continue to contact her, use her for sex and anything else you can get out of her while meeting and banging other girls as well.
 

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Women will find some kind of way to rationalize their behavior. They are actually even better at painting us men as the villain.

I had a gf for about a year, she tells me she wants to take a break. Next day her friend calls me and explains to me that my gf met a guy the night she called me and now they want to go out.

The way I look at it, women are emotional, not logical. If she ever says she needs time to think...NEXT
 

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If you guys knew the amount of Women that are willing to fvck around with me regardless of their relationship status it would probably make some of you puke in disgust. "I need a break" and/or "I need space" is probably #1 on the list of your girl fvcking around on you or about to. Ive been there, many of my friends have been there as well as many on here im sure have been there also. In the times we are living in, dont expect your GF to be 100% loyal to you because the temptation today is way too much for these Women and their emotions. Yeah you can tell me all you want that "My GF wouldnt do that and shes not like that" Or a Woman will shout it out that "She's not like that" "Im different" and "i would never do something like that babe, I love you" That same Girl will turn her back on you if the right circumstances were to present themselves to her. You also have to have thick skin because everyone will sham you if your not treating her like a princess and doing "everything to make her happy" meanwhile, if she fvcks around on you... Oh its because YOU werent doing the "right" things and she's just "confused". Haha so she gets to suck c0ck and get a free pass with "im confused" "I wasnt happy" etc and everyone will "understand" but if you do so much as flirt with another girl, you will be viewed as the lowest scumbag on this earth. You see the double standard?


BTW the first article is what many women do. This is why i stay away from getting emotionally involved because why would i risk my mental and emotional health for sh!t like that to happen? Its happened to me and i barely recovered from being so hurt. I'm 100% certain that if her boyfriend knew what she did, he would collapse from feeling so sad and hurt, literally.
 

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In2theGame said:
If you guys knew the amount of Women that are willing to fvck around with me regardless of their relationship status it would probably make some of you puke in disgust. "I need a break" and/or "I need space" is probably #1 on the list of your girl fvcking around on you or about to. Ive been there, many of my friends have been there as well as many on here im sure have been there also. In the times we are living in, dont expect your GF to be 100% loyal to you because the temptation today is way too much for these Women and their emotions. Yeah you can tell me all you want that "My GF wouldnt do that and shes not like that" Or a Woman will shout it out that "She's not like that" "Im different" and "i would never do something like that babe, I love you" That same Girl will turn her back on you if the right circumstances were to present themselves to her. You also have to have thick skin because everyone will sham you if your not treating her like a princess and doing "everything to make her happy" meanwhile, if she fvcks around on you... Oh its because YOU werent doing the "right" things and she's just "confused". Haha so she gets to suck c0ck and get a free pass with "im confused" "I wasnt happy" etc and everyone will "understand" but if you do so much as flirt with another girl, you will be viewed as the lowest scumbag on this earth. You see the double standard?
Sadly that's just one of the many double standards.

If you look at it by the numbers, the single most privileged group of people in American history is now and has always has been white Women. No other demographic has has experienced the same level of social mobility that they have as a group. Most of feminism is founded on the lie that women were/are downtrodden. Here in 2014 it is only bitter clingers who subscribe to the failed theory of misogyny.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is why a man shouldn't beg a woman when she asks for a "break". He should agree with her but make it a PERMANENT break. He shouldn't even tell her. Just agree with her and cut off all contact with her.

If the guy had done this, her hamster would have spun itself to death and she would even have the peace of mind to cheat.
 

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Shıt's just too fücking sad these days.
 
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