SgtSplacker
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next time you guys question the value of men vs. women...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol I see where you're going here. So basically its all daddy's money. To play devil's advocate though its not like they're just sitting around doing nothing and enjoying the wealth. They've had active roles in the companies.
SgtSplacker
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I just see lots of posts here with dudes buying into this "useless men" phenomenon going around in the media and such.
In the immortal words of Ron Burgundy:
"I'm a man! I build things out of brawn and steel"
In the immortal words of Ron Burgundy:
"I'm a man! I build things out of brawn and steel"
Christopher Philip
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Do you really want the truth? I've been following the MRM for a while and came up with my own rules.
"The Universal Gender Rules Of Women And Men"
http://bodylanguageproject.com/articles/the-universal-gender-rules-of-women-and-men/
"The Universal Gender Rules Of Women And Men"
http://bodylanguageproject.com/articles/the-universal-gender-rules-of-women-and-men/
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Jeezy Creezy, Abigail Johnson...she must be flyin that rainbow flag from the lesbionic 4X4's antenna!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.