“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BorisMoris

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To cut a long story short, I've done a whole circle with this girl.
We were basic normal friends, then became FWB, then she met another FWB, I became very AFC about this and messed up.
Through doing no contact, distance and being busy focusing on other girls she's texting again and showing interest. I still like her even on a basic friends level.
She always contacts me first through text or call, but she is flaky when it comes to meets. (she never was during our fwb period)

She sent me a text saying to fill her in on my week when i'm free (she thinks I had a date) but I don't want a text ping pong match or an hour call, I want to meet up.
What's the best thing to write to get a meet without coming across as an AFC?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

dustmuffin

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To cut a long story short, I've done a whole circle with this girl.
We were basic normal friends, then became FWB, then she met another FWB, I became very AFC about this and messed up.
Through doing no contact, distance and being busy focusing on other girls she's texting again and showing interest. I still like her even on a basic friends level.
She always contacts me first through text or call, but she is flaky when it comes to meets. (she never was during our fwb period)

She sent me a text saying to fill her in on my week when i'm free (she thinks I had a date) but I don't want a text ping pong match or an hour call, I want to meet up.
What's the best thing to write to get a meet without coming across as an AFC?
Just say lets meet...I'm free at this time day.....if she cant make it she will counter..Dont say you want to see her or any bull**** like that just hey lets meet and talk. Better yet invite her over.
 

El Payaso

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She's just using you for attention and will flake again.

Always remember that you DO NOT have to respond to her texts.
 

Maximus Rex

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What's the best thing to write to get a meet without coming across as an AFC?
Tell her to only contact you when she's ready to f*ck.
 
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