Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Next move (after prom)

TheLonelyOne

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Ok so I asked a girl that i knew but didn't really talk to to our Junior prom.
She doesn't usually get dates b/c most guys dont' find her attractive but i do for some reason I guess i just have different tastes.

Well anyway prom went well for the two of us. Slow dancing went really well. We were cheek to cheek and she rested her head and chin on my shoulder (i enjoyed that). While we were dancing i complimented her i said, "Wow your so beautiful". Corny I know but i still did it anyway. She replied, "wow your so cute!" could i get a translator for that sentence lol. What did she mean by that.

Anyways main point i wanted to ask was what should i do now. I'd like to ask her out on a date but how could i figure out what she thinks about me? Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheLonelyOne said:
Ok so I asked a girl that i knew but didn't really talk to to our Junior prom.
She doesn't usually get dates b/c most guys dont' find her attractive but i do for some reason I guess i just have different tastes.

Well anyway prom went well for the two of us. Slow dancing went really well. We were cheek to cheek and she rested her head and chin on my shoulder (i enjoyed that). While we were dancing i complimented her i said, "Wow your so beautiful". Corny I know but i still did it anyway. She replied, "wow your so cute!" could i get a translator for that sentence lol. What did she mean by that.

Anyways main point i wanted to ask was what should i do now. I'd like to ask her out on a date but how could i figure out what she thinks about me? Any suggestions?
I hate to say it mate, but that sentence is not the best news for you.

She said that because (or what I think she said it for) she was in a bind and had to say something that wouldn't 'hurt your feelings', or so they say.

Any other questions you'll have to ask other people about, I've been out of DJ'ing for a while now
 

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though if she "doesnt usually get asked" then I'm gonna assume that shes probably not used to that sort of attention, so shes not one of those b!tches that *know* thier hot, so shes not stuckup.

As for a second date jsut be likey "hey, i had a lot of fun at prom, why dont we repeat it n I'll take you out to icecream thursday." said int he msot confident vocie uc an muster up. non of this hesitant shannanigans. feel me?
 

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Best way to tell how she feels is to ask her out on a second date. As your date for a dance she was sort of obligated to dance close to you, etc. That being said, she didn't have to go with you in the first place. So a certain amount of interest has been proven. The questions are how much, and how much can you grow it into. Be confident, ask her to do something (just the two of you) work in some kino, and see where you can take it from there.
 
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