"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Next Em'

Leon Phelps

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Next em', some say is an overused concept.

Well I have decided when to next a girl. If, within the first 2 weeks of dating/persuing a girl she causes you any real stress WHATSOEVER, next her. She isnt worth it at this point.

One girl was impossible to hold a conversation with. And i was totally pimping her, she was just retarded. So i told her exactly that, and never looked back. That was today, by the way. If she desperately wants me even, i doubt she gets another chance. Not worth the time.

So if theres stress, use the next.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bust.it

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In general, true. I agree.

but be careful because one day you might pass up a GREAT girl who's just having a bad day/PMSing, and you've let that slip through your fingers.

For me, it's one strike (and i call her on it), then she's gone.
 

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I next them when i feel there is no challenge left. I don't really do it on a calendar.
 

Evil-Rom

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I don't think I even next girls anymore.

What I do is just "push" the girl lower on my "Girls Ladder". If I see her, I'll still try to get it, but I don't care really.

Hey, its better than totaly giving up. :)
 
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