"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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next? and hows my progress

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should I next, starting to get the hang of some of this DJing stuff now, anyways heres the scoop

Met girl at school known for a while but never talked, started talking more (sorta stole her from a guy i know cause he was interested in her an talked to her first but she wasent inerested in him) so talked for bout a week

then I got her number and email she accpeted my friend request on facebook for a while back. asked to to this dance I was DJing with a few friends of mine (acually DJing like with music) she said she wanted to go but dident know if she could, then she said she would come, then she texted me while i was setting up saying she couldent come she dident have a ride.

so i texted her back saying "i could have picked you up lol" "then she says "i couldent have gone that early sorry :("

so dance was fun that was a few hours ago now :p got lots of DJ and music DJ experiance was able to like work the room had all the hot chicks after me lol :p first time ive ever done that and it dident even take as much as i thought it would just had to follow the Don Juan way:p

so i get home i text this girl saying

"that dance was awsome!, So what are you gona do to make it up to me for not comming? :( see your making me sad lol!"

she hasent responded, she might be asleep though as its 1 am...

how do you guys think i did? this was also the first time i applied many of these tequnies in a "dance" setting.

i even feel great tonight even though that girl dident show
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Glad you had a good night :)

I wouldn't have texted her though..
She would have seen you had a good night if you uploaded pictures onto your facebook, changed the status to "Bryce.. had a banging time last night", seen your friend adds etc.. And with those hints you'd have a bit more of an idea whether or not she's interested in you or not.. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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next i guess lol, unless she says somthing to me when i get back from spring break, also cause i met this other girl while i was ona school trip in europe the past 10 days :p makin another post later about that, some quite dumbass happinings on my part that is just worth posting cause its so funny
 
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