"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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newspaper personals?

FoolsCause

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Has anyone here placed a personals ad in the local newspaper or nickel saver? I haven't heard anyone talk about this here probably since most personals are placed online now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FoolsCause said:
Has anyone here placed a personals ad in the local newspaper or nickel saver? I haven't heard anyone talk about this here probably since most personals are placed online now.
Newpaper personal ad's are and should be done with the introduction of the internet. I remember how anonymous those personals were, like the outdated Craiglist is today "SWF looking for a SWM, 27 yrs old, 5'4 blonde, medium build, name is Kathy" and then you either wait a week for a picture in the mail or you take your chance and go out to meet her hoping your date won't look like godzilla or be a 50 year old semi-retired prostitute.
 

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FoolsCause said:
Has anyone here placed a personals ad in the local newspaper or nickel saver? I haven't heard anyone talk about this here probably since most personals are placed online now.

I had my personal ad in a local newspaper for about nine months.
During that time 4 or 5 ladies contacted me. Three of them were single moms and one had two huge dogs.
One lady was ten years older than me and had a son, her husband had left for another younger woman. As it turned out later, she used me to make her husband jelaous.
Another lady, the one with two huge dogs, was in a process of divorce, and it turned out that her husband, who was definitely smart, made her sign a prenup which she now regretted because she knew she would not get anything from him and I was being looked at as a roomate.(she had to move out of his house)
The third lady did not seem to have an agenda, but she had a 10 mo son who meant a whole world to her. She was breastfeeding him and could not leave him for more than four hours. Read date was limited to 1-2 hours. I think she was crazy.

The bottom line - newspaper ad did not work in my case. While my ad was on I had never been contacted by somebody who had no kids or had not been recently divorced (read not broken).
 
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