"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Newsflash - YOU are NOT the PRIZE, and the best women DONT want you!!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Although you may have every Alpha trait known to mankind, if you're alone you're an Alpha man and "Prize" who's alone jacking his d!ck. Not to say that being alone is a bad thing, it's not. BUT, being alone and lonely is a horrible way to live. If all you do is pop your pimples with the promise that: "Tomorrow I'm going to grab the world by the balls!" then sit on your ass watching Star Trek repeats, then you have no will to live and by medical standards are clinically dead.
ValleyDJing
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BannedGod
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Where can I find this post?Obsidian said:
Obsidian said:
lol yea but what if she doesnt want u cuz u arent the prize? Cuz the guy that she DOES want is the guy that is the prize in her eyes
what if this happens to 90% of girls u meet Obsidian?? are u just telling urself u dont want her JUST because she doesnt want u even tho she is hot, smart, and perfect in every other way???
thats just bitter thinking, and deff not the way someone who is the prize thinks "oh shyt i want her sooooooo badly, but nah im just the prize and she doesnt see it, thats why she doesnt want me, so to hell with her"
if alot of girls dont want u, then u are NOT the prize buddy boy
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I agree with Touch Love, she doesn't want you because you are not the prize, someone else is, maybe another girl, lots of women these days are bi-'s or lezzies.Obsidian said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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We are insane.
Take charge of your own life! Don't let yourself continue to be ruled by a woman. This corruption violates the Natural Order of Things. Step out of the Matrix, man!Genesis 2:23-24 said:
You are completely in error, ToughLove. If 90% of the girls have low IL in me, then I move on to the other 10%. I am still the prize because I have my sh1t together, and because I'm judging the women for suitability rather than supplicating to their whims.ToughLove said:
If you qualify the women (instead of the other way around) and only get serious with girls who have high IL, you are the exact opposite of a chump. If you follow Anti-Dump's Machine, maybe you can escape being part of the 60% of failed marriages.
Essentially, to allow our prizeability to be based on other people's judgment of us is to BECOME WOMEN OURSELVES. How wrong that is! A real man takes action in life, yes, and improves himself (thus making him NOT a loser). But a man sure as hell doesn't base his worth on the opinions of others. That's what females do.
BannedGod
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39729
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39769
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39785
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39887
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39888
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40188
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40241
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40347
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40698
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=58363
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Serialized3
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ToughLove said:
tmpgstx
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These guys that are prizes in this regard are simply so because they don't care about the insecure girl.
BannedGod
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Ok thanks, and sorry about the double post I didn't even know about PM until nowObsidian said:
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This, intentionally or not, is the funniest thing I've read all day.Luke Skywalker said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.