Newly Single, unsure how to proceed

[TenOfSpades]

First time I have been single in a loooong time. Went to bar with my friend and his GF and her friends. Ended up having a girl talk to me all night. I wasn't yet into single mode. Didn't think anything of it, thought it was just a nice friendly convo lol. Never even crossed my mind to pursue.

The next day I realized and was like "aw, damn". So I told my friend to talk to his GF. He did, girl had said I was cute and wanted to go to bar again. Then last night my buddies GF drunk texts him to tell me that the girl is down.

So not sure what I should do between these two options. Should I get the number ASAP from the GF or just wait till whenever I go out with these people again?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Get the number, yes.... contact her and make a definite date.

Start working on bettering yourself as a man, and bettering your game. Read the DJ bible. Start meeting more women. Don't focus on this one chick.

In the future, learn the signs of a woman's interest (IOIs - indicators of interest). You must strike while the iron is hot and move the interaction along quickly. Your ultimate goal should be to have sex with interested women, then you can decide if you want to continue to smash multiple women (plate spinning) or qualify chicks for LTR.

Good luck.

 

[Ratiocinative]

I would wait. Meet her there, chat a bit, then take her somewhere else just the two of you. If she says no or not right now then get her number and plan a date then, if she wont plan one text her right then to let you know when she's free, then leave and go meet other women. In fact, go talk to some women in the same bar right in front of her. You asked her out, she said no, so she deserves to spend the night watching other women give you their number.

 

[grayclif]

[QUOTE="Don't focus on this one chick.[/QUOTE]

Please don't focus on this chick. Get to the gym and delve back into your old hobbiy(s). Make sure you get out there and talk to more girl's and ask them out on dates.