Hey DJ's and fellow DJ's-in-progress,
I've been lurking on these forums for a couple of weeks now, but I just joined up today, since simply reading these forums is not useful in bettering my 'game'.
So, a little bit about myself, I'm a first year student in the University of California, Berkeley, studying engineering. I'd say I'm an AFC (although that should change shortly), but my luck with girls hasn't been horrible at all (although I want it to be much better!).
As a poor college student, I'm not really in the whole nightclub/bar scene, but I do frequent frat parties pretty much every weekend; meaning that pretty much all of my questions will be about 'frat party game'.
Since I've read such great posts by tons of members, offering help and guidance, I decided to post my situation and see what you guys make of it...
So early last semester, I met this girl kinda randomly with a couple of my friends. There was no instant attraction/openers/etc. just cause I was just hanging out and chillin' with my friends. Fast forward a few months - I see this girl in this frat, and we start dancing. Now, it starts to heat up, and we make out and stuff on the dance floor.
So as we leave, like the drunk AFC that I am (was), we leave hand in hand to take a walk. So we effing walk around campus for like hours, just talking. I finally drop her off at her building, and we exchange numbers. I take her out on a date a week later, but she acts pretty awkwardly (she's never had a BF, so I'm assuming this awkwardness is directly correlated).
So in this time span, we've been texting and chatting randomly numerous times per week. She texts me a couple of days after the date saying, "I'm not really looking for a relationship right now...", so I pretty much NEXT her. Ironically, this girl goes into a relationship like 2 days later with some other guy. Whatever.
Fast forward to now. In this time, I've just been friendly to her, just talking randomly, although I never initiate conversations. She's always really flirty and whatnot (which I mostly reciprocate), and a couple of days ago, she just broke up with her boyfriend, which I find out when she texts me and goes, "yes! finally I'm free".
Still, I've pretty much nexted her, although I've always kept my eyes open for like a FWB type situation. So last night, I get back from a really lame party, pretty damn buzzed, when I get a text from this girl at like 1:30, when I'm back in my dorm (like I said, lame party). She asks me if I'm drunk, and whether she can come over (before this, we've never expressed any interest in going over to each other's places).
Unfortunately, my roomie was asleep and he had to leave early in the morning, so I didn't have the heart to kick him out at 1:45 in the morning. I texted her back saying that my room was busy, and that I would just come over to her place.
Long story short, I head over there at 2, but there were a ton of people awake and rambunctious in her room. Needless to say, I ejected for lack of a better option, and just texted her on my way back about how I was disappointed that she'd failed
She replies back saying, well, what would we have done in your room? Again, I was like...I dunno, I'm sure we would have figured something out
Final text of the night - fail, you disappoint me <raptor967>. I was looking forward to having fun with you
I don't even understand this situation. Sorry for the IMMENSELY long text block. It's just an intricately woven story web.
I've been lurking on these forums for a couple of weeks now, but I just joined up today, since simply reading these forums is not useful in bettering my 'game'.
So, a little bit about myself, I'm a first year student in the University of California, Berkeley, studying engineering. I'd say I'm an AFC (although that should change shortly), but my luck with girls hasn't been horrible at all (although I want it to be much better!).
As a poor college student, I'm not really in the whole nightclub/bar scene, but I do frequent frat parties pretty much every weekend; meaning that pretty much all of my questions will be about 'frat party game'.
Since I've read such great posts by tons of members, offering help and guidance, I decided to post my situation and see what you guys make of it...
So early last semester, I met this girl kinda randomly with a couple of my friends. There was no instant attraction/openers/etc. just cause I was just hanging out and chillin' with my friends. Fast forward a few months - I see this girl in this frat, and we start dancing. Now, it starts to heat up, and we make out and stuff on the dance floor.
So as we leave, like the drunk AFC that I am (was), we leave hand in hand to take a walk. So we effing walk around campus for like hours, just talking. I finally drop her off at her building, and we exchange numbers. I take her out on a date a week later, but she acts pretty awkwardly (she's never had a BF, so I'm assuming this awkwardness is directly correlated).
So in this time span, we've been texting and chatting randomly numerous times per week. She texts me a couple of days after the date saying, "I'm not really looking for a relationship right now...", so I pretty much NEXT her. Ironically, this girl goes into a relationship like 2 days later with some other guy. Whatever.
Fast forward to now. In this time, I've just been friendly to her, just talking randomly, although I never initiate conversations. She's always really flirty and whatnot (which I mostly reciprocate), and a couple of days ago, she just broke up with her boyfriend, which I find out when she texts me and goes, "yes! finally I'm free".
Still, I've pretty much nexted her, although I've always kept my eyes open for like a FWB type situation. So last night, I get back from a really lame party, pretty damn buzzed, when I get a text from this girl at like 1:30, when I'm back in my dorm (like I said, lame party). She asks me if I'm drunk, and whether she can come over (before this, we've never expressed any interest in going over to each other's places).
Unfortunately, my roomie was asleep and he had to leave early in the morning, so I didn't have the heart to kick him out at 1:45 in the morning. I texted her back saying that my room was busy, and that I would just come over to her place.
Long story short, I head over there at 2, but there were a ton of people awake and rambunctious in her room. Needless to say, I ejected for lack of a better option, and just texted her on my way back about how I was disappointed that she'd failed
She replies back saying, well, what would we have done in your room? Again, I was like...I dunno, I'm sure we would have figured something out
Final text of the night - fail, you disappoint me <raptor967>. I was looking forward to having fun with you
I don't even understand this situation. Sorry for the IMMENSELY long text block. It's just an intricately woven story web.