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And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

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Black Widow Void

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I would imagine that most of you discover this site and think that you'll be unlocking all those mysteries about women. I wish that I could tell you that it is this easy. Yes, you'll find some good advice and answers, but you'll equally be mislead as well. These "misleaders" aren't out to intentionally send you down the wrong path. It's more a matter that they lack experience and rely on approval from other forum members (that are naive). Now... ask yourself this: If these particular members are this desperate for approval.... then in the real world, could you really see them as being successful with women?

Here's just one example: One misconception on this forum... is the myth that going down on a woman is counterproductive. If this was the 1950's maybe so, but these are different times. Again, if a forum member is reliant on "looking cool" to a bunch of forum internet strangers, he'll try to project an image that he's above it. Anyone with actual experience (if he's doing it right) will tell you otherwise.

Now.. would I rather receive than give? Of course. Most men would. Even if you're not into going down, the pros outweigh the cons.
Some women are just not capable of receiving a climax when penetrated. They require outer stimulation. Sometimes a finger will do, but applying oral and sometimes oral and a finger or fingers can do wonders.

What's in it for you, you ask? Well, if offering mutual pleasure isn't enough, you'll also be "king" in her eyes. Chances are (unless you landed a virgin) those in her past didn't take the time or effort. By comparison, you've given her an experience unlike no other man (the big "O"). This isn't to brag, but I've recycled many ex's for physical fun and (though I've never asked) it's surely because I took the effort to reciprocate.

There's an old joke: Women are like carpet. If you lay'em right the first time, you can walk all over them.

I could site more instances, but basically wanted to say to the newbies, lurkers and inexperienced... to look beneath the surface of advice given here. There's some good solid members here, but there's also a lot of lonely regular members that attempt to flex, chest-thump etc... Some members can not feel empowered - unless they put down new members. Just imagine how sad their lives are in the real world. Others... will try just a little too hard to project some 'cool' image that they clearly aren't. If you click on their posting history, you'll easily get an idea of their actual character.

There is no "one size fits" all approach to women. It's no different than when you were in school with different female teachers. With some teachers, you could get by with more and with others, you couldn't. Some you respected and some you didn't. Some you didn't like and some didn't like you.

Bottom line is to respect and like yourself. Oh sure, getting female attention can be flattering, but do not become dependent on it. This is when you loose your core of self-worth and self-respect. The better you respect yourself, the more respect you'll receive. If life currently isn't going well, do not expect things to instantly change ... like switching on like a light switch. However, if you continue to work on yourself, you'll see progress; which may be gradual, but will continue.
 

Scars

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I love eating p*ssy. And the Stirling Cooper video said it best. When you eat it out, you're breathing in all those pheromones. It gets me rock hard every time. It's like natural viagra, and the girl loves it. I def agree too many men are consumed with the idea of trying too hard to be "alpha". Just relax. If you enjoy eating p*ssy, do it. If you don't, then don't. But don't sh*t on other men who do it, and enjoy doing it.. I've never had any complaints from any woman, ever.
 

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What's in it for you, you ask? Well, if offering mutual pleasure isn't enough, you'll also be "king" in her eyes. Chances are (unless you landed a virgin) those in her past didn't take the time or effort. By comparison, you've given her an experience unlike no other man (the big "O"). This isn't to brag, but I've recycled many ex's for physical fun and (though I've never asked) it's surely because I took the effort to reciprocate.

There's an old joke: Women are like carpet. If you lay'em right the first time, you can walk all over them.
I did! No need to finger her or go down on her. She´s perfectly happy with my d1ck inside her because that´s all she knows. We´ve been together since December 15. Im putting a ring on it sometime next year.

My advice to guys who dont want to spin plates for life is pull and lock down a virgin. Cant do it? At least pull a girl who is not a single mother. But another member pointed out (cant remember who): Past a certain age, a woman without kids is actually a red flag. I think he has a point.

Its like you said: There no one size fits all. Most women test us to vet out betas. New members have to vet advice just like we have to vet women.
 
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