"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Newbies apparently need a big sign pointing to The Bible so I made one

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Sick of newbies asking the same old questions that have been answered in the bible? Tired of typing 'RTFB'? Me too.

So I knocked this up in Flash. The site is welcome to it if they want to cut down on the amount of samey old threads.

http://www.danavenell.com/DJBIBle.htm

If not, no problem just playing around.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BUMP! And Great Work Man!

It's simple, and elegant. I could easily see this on the forum.


BTW: Have you e-mailed Allen, the site administrator? I'm sure he'd like it.
 

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Looks great in Wyndows and Internet Exposer but don't forget about the rest of the world that uses Linux and Mozilla. It does not work there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Docs:

I won't get into a Wyndows vs. Linux fight, but, uh, FF for Linux is not the same as FF for Wyndows.

Point is: Nighthawk did a great job, I salute him, but: Don't forget about some dude in San Salvadore that could not get the bootleg version of XP and is in the same boat as the rest of us: His **** is in a bind about some *****.

I know these dudes, dude. Get it? I'm there......Now....
 

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grinder said:
Looks great in Wyndows and Internet Exposer but don't forget about the rest of the world that uses Linux and Mozilla. It does not work there.
I'm using Ubuntu Dapper (its a very popular Linux distribution) and it looks fine.

You just have to install the mozilla-flash plugin package or whatever its called in your systems repositories. It works after that.

Works in Opera, Konqueror, Firefox, Mozilla Suite.. everything.
 

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Well Sh*t, Call_Me_Daddy: I'm not a total ******* (pretty close) so I do appreciate it. We are using fedora 5 and having probs. Ugg, hate command line sh*t. Don't like to be root all the time.

Ok, before this is moved to the nerd section I will say that, yes, many newbies totally rot our brains with the same questions over and over and if they just read half of the bible they could sarge and actually contribute rather than ask for "easy" solutions that they will never take.
 

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Thanks for the positive response everyone.

Call_Me_Daddy, if people like it I'll send it to Allen. Anyone know the best email for him?

Grinder, I agree this site should be accessible to all, and if anyone else has any difficulty viewing Flash I'd like to hear.

Anyone else here use Flash or Dreamweaver? PM me and we can swap tips and stuff. Like in Dreamweaver, how do I get the above link to pop up as a neat little mini-page?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nighthawk said:
Anyone know the best email for him?

Grinder, I agree this site should be accessible to all, and if anyone else has any difficulty viewing Flash I'd like to hear.
The Mods know what his e-mail is. Just ask.


And there should not be any problems viewing flash. Everyone has flash.
 
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