"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi there all, iv known about this forum for about a year now and have only just signed up after a serious relationship break up. Here's a bit about my self so please take it easy on me as I didn't know I this was the right section to post in.

Well as I grew up I wasn't the best looking guy in fact I was one of the worst lol, basically one of those ugly ducklings that blossomed into a kind of good looking swan, as I grew up I was AFC thinking to my self why am I single all the time.

So one day I managed to get my self a girlfriend and then I cheated on her for another girl and then that got screwed up but I was cut up over this girl for 2 years and was single during this time, but however I did get a few one night stands and a lot of girls attention at high school/college. During this time I got hurt really badly to girls that I confessed my love to, I.e on one valentines day i asked this girl out that was a 4/5 out of 10 and she took everything I gave her and then left me..

Then I got with this girl who was a 6/7 out of 10 but she left me for my best friend who then she left for someone as, once I came to term about this girl i then decided to what I thought go back to my "player days" so I went out with this girl for nothing but physical satisfaction, I'm not going to lie this girl was a 3 out of 10 and thought Ill keep f*cking someone better comes along which did and this girl was a solid 7.5/8 out of 10 and I went out with her and introduced her to my family as I thought she was the one and she did the same, then I found out she cheated and after a while I took her back (big mistake) so the after a while the relationship got boring and I cheated on her with some 5 out of 10 on snap chat and now my girl won't take me back.. Yeah i messed up.. So now I'm currently back from a night out in the club which was really bad and I didn't even get any action.. Pathetic I known so yeah that's my story. I would appreciate some help and guidance from the DJ's on how to become one my self.
Thank you, Adam.

P.s please ignore the spelling mistakes I'm currently a bit tipsy at the moment I had to drown my sorrows
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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can you break that up into paragraphs please buddy - its kinda hard to navigate the wall of text :up:
 

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Purefilth said:
can you break that up into paragraphs please buddy - its kinda hard to navigate the wall of text :up:
All done :)
 
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